Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 29 - Support for Tests, Treatments and Trying Again

[barkingtreefrog]

Support, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so prepare to read fast!

Previous thread here

Link to the RMC investigations information

Stats update:

allthereis: 29. DC, 4MC
anniehoo: 42. TTC#1 for 2.5yrs, 4MC
barkingtreefrog: 36. TTC#1 since Dec 11, 2MC
bettybutterchops: 40. DS, 3MC, pg
bootles: 41. DS, 1TFMR, 4MC, pg
brummiegirl: 38. TTC#1 since Apr 14, 3MC, pg
bubblybubbles80: 34. TTC#1, 3MC
bumblebee0: 29. DS, 2MC, pg
bunnymad: 40. DD, 2MC
bythesea82: 33. TTC#1 since Dec 12, 3MC, pg
casiopeia: . TTC#1, 3MC
chrystley: 41. DD, 5MC, pg
cloudjumper: 43. DS, 4MC, pg
confu3ed: 39. DS, DD, 5MC, pg
desperatelyhopeful: DS, 10 MC.
emerald72: 43. DS, 3MC
enlightenedbunny: 34. TTC#1 since '10, 1TFMR, 3MC, pg
erica21: 32. DS, 2MC, pg
extrablessings: 33. DS, 6MC
fackinell: 44. TTC#1, 4MC
fififolle: 37. DC, 2MC, pg
flen: 36. TTC#1, 3MC, pg
floweroct: 34. TTC#1 since 11, 3MC
frecklefire: 40. DS, 3MC
genwah85: 29. DS, 3MC, pg
girliesaints: 37. DD, 4MC (1 twins)
girlinoz: 32. TTC#1, 3 MC
Ifinishedthebiscuits: 37. 2DS, 4MC
iloveyoubaby: . DD, 2MC
inamaymaybewrong. 37. DS, 2MC
jady77: 37. TTC#1 since Sep 14, 2MC, pg
kazz2112: 31. TTC#1 since Feb 14, 3MC
lauren83: 31. TTC #1 for 7yrs, 2MC (1 twins)
leah1984: . TTC#1, 2MC
loopyaboutmy2boys: 38. 2DS, 6MC
lovemylittlebear: 29. 1 ectopic, 2MC, pg
marchgirl: 37. DD, 5MC, pg
maverick79: 35. TTC#1, 2MC, pg
me2me2: 2DC, 2MC
mimidoddrioni: 35. TTC#1, 2MC
minnie74: 40. DS, 3MC, pg
monten: 37. TTC#1 since Apr 13, 1TFMR, 1MC
morganlefey: 29. DD, 3MC
mrsb0710: 29. TTC#1, 2MC
mrsconfusion: 36. DD, 3MC, pg
mrsdiddlydoo: 34. DS, 2MC, pg
notspartacus: 39. 2DD, 2 ectopic , 3MC
onedaymaybe1: 32. TTC#1, 3MC
onestep2015: 39. TTC#1 since May 13, 3MC, 1 ectopic /PUL
patienceisvirtuous: 37. TTC#1 since Mar 14, 2MC, pg
peqpit: 33. TTC#1 for 2yrs, 3MC
portmoon: 43. DS, DD, 5MC
sallywade: 36. DS, 1TFMR, 5MC, pg
sashakerr: 37. DS, 3MC
sebsmummy: 40. DS, 3MC, pg
sizethree: 35, TTC#1, 3MC, pg
snoopysimaginaryfriend: 29. TTC#1 since Sep 14, 3MC
spamminit: 25. 2DS, 2MC
strubidooo: 34. TTC#1 since Sep 12, 3MC, 1 ect
sunandrainbow: 38, TTC#1, 4MC, pg
teach3: 27. TTC#1, 3MC
texta: 32. TTC#1, 3MC
thepopandcry: 38, DS, 4MC
thornfield38: 34. TTC#1 for 2 yrs, 2MC, pg
tomcat81: 34. TTC#1 since Oct 14, 2MC
twilightstruggle: TTC#1 since Nov 12, 5MC
wadsy: 36. DS, 1 ectopic , 4 MC, pg

ourdaywillcome
daisybell

Thread babies
bakingtins: 40. 2DS, 4MC. Faith born May 14
tannyloo: 42, 2DS, 5MC. Bertie born Mar 15
tinytear: 41. DD, 5MC. Alice born Mar 15
justonemoretime: 39. 3MC. Scott born May 15
purplefrogshoes: 38. 2MC, 1CMP. John born May 15
longestlurkerever: 34. DD, 3MC. Beth born Jun 15
catlover2014: 35. TTC#1 since 09, 3MC. Louis born Jun 15
boozle80: 34. 3MC. Mhairi born Jun 15
belleende: 40. TTC#1, 2MC, 1 TFMR. Cissy born Jun 15

Also hoping there's still a chance xxxxx

Ahhh... monten... (Thanks bootles)

Emerald the combined screening results will be with me within a week (I pray in letter form) and the Harmony should take two weeks.

Good luck with the scans today girls, absolutely everything crossed for you

barking Hugs, it is so unfair. Could it still be too early? You are not 14DPO yet, are you? Really wishing that this will still work out for you.

Good luck with the scans today!

I'm on hols at mo so don't have good signal but just wanted to say sorry about bfn barking really hoping it's too early

Congrats on the scans yesterday fingers crossed for those today. Will catch up properly when I'm back x

Thanks for all the good wishes everyone. It worked. All good on the scan. A double blob (head and body) measuring 7+4 with a hb. So relieved. Another scan in 2 weeks.

Oh march that's BRILL!

Yay march - awesome news!!!! Although completely misread the 'double blob' as twins at first!! Doing a jig for you!

Brilliant news March x

Wonderful march! did they mention the haematoma this time?
(Also thought you meant twins for a second there too!) x

Great news march

barking I hope you are ok. Really hoping it's just too early but a horrible feeling looking at those blank sticks. Sending you lots of hugs

Great news march! Very pleased for you xx

Woop woop march!

Not good news here. Baby measuring 6.2, should be 8.2. No heartbeat. I have to go back in a week but I reckon that's just a formality. I'm just lying on the sofa. Quite stunned. I don't know if I can do this again.

Oh Monten I'm so sorry. What a shame. It's the waiting bit that is so hard. Sending big hugs xx

Oh no. monten, sweetie, I'm so so sorry. I'm gutted for you. Have you got someone with you? Just so awful, esp to have to wait. Massive hugs

monten I'm so so sorry. Its heartbreaking, and the waiting is awful. Thinking of you.

Oh monten huge, huge hugs, that is just so horrible. I am so sorry to hear it xxxx

Sorry march I should have said congrats to you, really really pleased we have some good news

monten so sorry to hear your news. thinking of you x

monton I am so sorry to hear this news and sorry you have a horrible wait. There is nothing to say but sending you lots of strength and best wishes

Oh monten lovely, I am so so sorry...absolutely gutted for you. I have had to do the waiting thing several times, and it's so bloody grim. Here to listen and hand hold XXX

march that's fantastic news! So pleased for you lovely x

As is so common on this thread, big extremes of emotion.

I'm so sorry monten. Awful having to wait a week. Thinking of you xxx