I've always been very open about mine inamay, which I think makes dh very uncomfortable. he's very private and doesn't want anyone to know, but we work in the same place, which makes it hard. He's never said anything to me about not wanting me to tell anyone, so he's obviously just sucking it up, which I'm grateful for as I know how he'll be feeling, but I just didn't want to hide it.
My first one I emailed my nct friends because we were all fairly close at that point. I got such a mixed bag of reactions that I never did it again. Two were supportive as they had had mc, which was great. Two were supportive even though they hadn't. One told me it just wasn't meant to be and it'd be fine next time (!) and two didn't even reply.
I choose who I tell more carefully now, but on the whole, I'm open about it. I decided if people ask me then I'm not going to lie, but there are fewer people I tell when it's unsolicited. It's so hard for people that you don't see much though. Some of my friends I feel like the only thing I ever say to them is that I've had another mc.
I really think we ought to try and be as open as we can about mc to try and break the taboo. Yes, people you tell might feel a bit uncomfortable at first, but they shouldn't, and it's never going to change without a bit of that. But sometimes that's easier said than done, so you just do what you feel is right for the situation. Xx