Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 25 - tests, treatment and trying again

[Marchgirl]

Tea, hugs, a wealth of collective knowledge and lots of hand holding as we try again. This thread moves like lightning so hold on to your hats!
Previous thread here

Oh Jady that's brilliant news, I'm so relieved for you.

Sasha that sounds a bit scary. How are you feeling about the results? I imagine it's a relief to have a possible explanation for your losses but as you say, a drip and thousands of pounds worth of treatment sounds pretty extreme.

jady that is fantastic

I forgot to say. I got given fresh green notes today with no bastard bounty pack and I think I don't have to have a booking in appointment either. Never been so pleased!

The midwife messed up one of the sections on the front and was apologies for making a mistake and scribbling on it. It was on the tip of my tongue to tell her not to worry as the last three green notes were in the bin a few weeks after they were written it so it really wasn't a problem

jady - awesome work! Am so happy for you, am beaming x

Fantastic news jady! So delighted that it's all going so well.

Cloud I asked about heparin. She said if you forget it you can either take it when you remember then carry on taking it at that new time each day or you can just skip a day.

I feel all fuzzy and warm inside, thank you again for everyone's support. xx

Yay! jady fab news. So pleased for you!!

sasha glad you've a plan you're happy with. Sounds majorly expensive though!

freckle hope you managed to get home in a reasonable time. Rubbish on such a lovely day (and precious afternoon off!)

brummie hand holding for your scan. Scanxiety is just the crappest MC spoiling part of early pregnancy. I'm sure all will be well though. You've had great pg symptoms from so early it must be a strong little bean.

cloud not long till holiday! Enjoy! And you too bythesea- so jealous!

5 dpo today and boobs are feeling sore but that could mean af so not excited about that (though reading into it obvs!) figuring pmt should start next week if af's on its way- or does prog stop that? Bum bullets start on sat/sun

Sorry for missing anyone and waves to all!

I'm starting to panic. I can feel it in my chest

I need to calm down. This is horrible

I went to the loo earlier and wasn't really paying attention and now I'm second guessing "was there a smear of pink on the loo roll"

I've checked every time I've wiped religiously and now I'm driving myself crazy with panic because I didn't really look and can't be sure

Fab news, jady! Hope you can relax a bit now

Oh brummie I can totally feel your fear lovely. And totally get it. Fking knicker/paper checking! Not long till tomorrow. Have you got something to take your mind off it? Trashy love island telly?

Jady**, if i didn't say earlier (due to breakdown rage) i am so happy and relieved for you!

Brummie** i thoughts so, cheers chic. Re scan tomoz, god, i know i'll never look at a scan in the same way again - but we will all be in the room with you. Hand holding

March** i'm not testing yet, too scared. Are you gonna test again? I wish my boobs were reliable communicators like everyone everyone elses. What do my boobs say? One says "spagetti!" I think the other one's reciting russian poetry whilst smoking a pipe...

Hahaha freckle!!! I've been prodding mine like a mad woman but they just don't hurt. Although sometimes when I'm just sitting here i get a little shot of tenderness clutching at straws
I'll test again tomorrow of course. Addict.

I'm embarrassingly late adding my stats, but in my defence I've been at my in-laws with patchy internet access!

2010 - Ectopic 7 weeks
2011 - Chemical 4 weeks 3 days
DS born 2013
March 2014 - Miscarriage 5 weeks 2 days
November 2014 - Chemical 4 weeks 3 days
April 2015 Chemical 4 weeks 3 days.

Low progesterone, Low AMH and Factor V Leiden diagnosis. Seeing Mr Shehata on NHS. Currently pregnant - 7 weeks 6 days.

Bootles my BFP buddy, so happy to hear the news about your scan!

Jady Wonderful news about your scan. You're on a roll!

March Really hoping you get a BFP when you test again.

Brummie and Sun Hand holding for your scans. It's so scary. Really hoping you get the good news you deserve.

Sasha Ouch! My friend was on the drip and she had to take out credit cards to pay for it. Not funny. Can you get your meeting with Mr Shehata brought forward just to get a second opinion?

One Step Welcome. I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. Hope you find these ladies as great as I have.

Freckle You never fail to make me laugh out loud! Hope you get your BFP, despite your unreliable boobies.

AFM Feeling horribly sick so hoping that is a good sign. I'll be 8 weeks tomorrow and I have another scan on Tuesday. This pregnancy is 'quiet' compared to the one with my DS. I had loads of spotting with him and was in and out of the EPU nearly every second day. So far no spotting with this one. A friend who's never had a loss asked me if I'd thought about names today . Oh the innocence! With my DS I didn't even buy a new bra for myself until I was 20 weeks, in case I jinxed it!!!

Thanks Wadsy.

Keep strong, thinking of you.

You too Brummie.

You are all such amazing ladies.

Brummie and Sun I'm so hoping for good scans for you tomorrow and will be handholding.

Glad you got home in the end Freckles. It was hot today so can only imagine the rage!
My boobs are also unreliable. Crossing everything for both you and March.

Thanks all. As Minnie correctly predicted I am distracting myself with Love Island (currently on ITV2 should you care) and the Barnsley Pizza Hut twins have been binned off

I'm at 9am tomorrow and so scared

Great news Jady - whoop whoop

Brummie and Sun - hand holding for tomorrow.

Sorry to be brief - feeling a bit off tonight. Will be better in the morning.

Hope you are ok twilight

Brummie We turned it on briefly then DP quickly turned it off again lol.

Hope you feel better in the morning Twilight

brummie I'm currently annoying Dh with America's next top model

Will be thinking of you in the morning Brummie.

Love Island was horrible. Even I have limits on my Tv trash.

Watching RHWNJ reunion now and it's about to kick off! This shit makes me feel better and distracts me from feeling sorry for myself.

Argh my hay fever is driving me nuts. Anyone else suffering sniff sniff

Thinking of you tomorrow Brummie. Everything crossed xxx

I'm ashamed of my viewing habits. I'm 38, have a degree, a good job, a mortgage and I live next to a field in Worcestershire.

I should not be watching something that makes Geordie Shore look like Countryfile

Cat how did DH op go ?

Extra hope you are doing ok at the moment xx

sebs with you on the hay fever, have not been too bad this year until now but could cheerfully scratch my eyes out tonight.

brummie and sun good luck tomorrow, try not to give in to scanxiety. We will all be crowding in there with you.