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Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 24 - tests, treatment, trying again.

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Brummiegirl15 · 23/05/2015 20:42

New thread for us if it's worked on phone! Will paste stats

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bootles · 07/06/2015 07:50

mrsd big hand hold for your scan x

girlie hope you enjoyed the evening and the suffering doesn't last too long today!

bootles · 07/06/2015 07:51

Oops for posting twice..couldn't see the first one - duh

mrsdiddlydoo · 07/06/2015 07:57

Thanks ladies. Got up early because I can't sleep. Most nervous I've been.

barking I'm sorry about your dad. The hospital visit sounded really tough. Well done on getting through it. xx

MrsConfusion · 07/06/2015 08:13

MrsD thinking of you so much. You know we're all in there with you today.

Barking so sorry about your dad. Totally unfair and really profoundly scary to see a parent suddenly so fragile. Flowers

Welcome Annie and kazz, so sorry for your losses and tough journeys.

Rather late - longest - woohoo!! Congrats!! Welcome Beth, gorgeous name. You did it you brave amazing woman!

Waves to everyone else. I'm reading but working 6 days, long days, so failing to post much. Sorry Confused But am thinking of you lots

Brummiegirl15 · 07/06/2015 08:42

Barking I'm so sorry, you just don't need that.

Right need to get up so I can drive to Heathrow for my Milan flight. Reminding myself it's only 1 night and I've got pads etc should anything happen.

I will be ok Confused

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Marchgirl · 07/06/2015 09:13

I hope you are able to enjoy milan brummie. It'll be a good distraction hopefully

Frecklefire · 07/06/2015 09:30

Thinking of you brummie**! Please can i do your job while you are pg - it sounds amazing! Oh the life not lived!

March** we seem to be aligned this month! Progesterone starts tomorrow, day 25 for me. No symptoms at all but i guess 6 days post ov is WAY too early. I'm not going to let myself test anything until day 30 or 31 though jic.

Barking** hope your dad had a better night. X

sebsmummy1 · 07/06/2015 10:04

Brummie it will be fine. You've had no scares to date so that's a fab sign.

Everything crossed for today MrsD Flowers

Well after my brief excitement on Friday because I had creamy cm later than usual, this then turned into two spates of watery red blood yesterday, morn and eve and today nothing. I can hardly be bothered to analyse it as in my two year history of try and failing to conceive I've had all sorts of things happen with all sorts of outcomes. I'm expecting AF tomorrow or Tuesday so I'll see if she appears and I guess if not, test!

Brummiegirl15 · 07/06/2015 10:09

Fingers crossed Sebs

Good luck MrsD

Got my plastic bag with all my toiletries in plus a separate plastic bag with my cyclogest in and the Cov letter. Going to leave that in my bag and pray I don't have to pull it out!

Don't fancy explaining to security, with my colleague next to me who doesn't know I'm pregnant, what cyclogest is! Grin

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Marchgirl · 07/06/2015 10:51

Fingers crossed sebs

Ah, I didn't realise we were quite so aligned as that freckle Smile. Fingers crossed for all of the twws

mrsdiddlydoo · 07/06/2015 11:55

Completely amazed. Heart still beating and measured approx 12 + 4. Dh couldn't come with me in the end. He's going to be so amazed when he sees at next weeks scan. Assuming we get that far. Best £39 I've ever spent. Scary huge TV screen though. Can feel my heart lifting slightly. Don't know what I'd do with out you guys.

brummie hope you get on the plane ok with little bother about the drugs.

mrsC hope you're doing ok

Right. Off to stuff my face with weird quorn fake scotch eggs. Strange craving for them Confused

sebsmummy1 · 07/06/2015 12:12

Oh that's just brilliant brilliant news MrsD Grin

Minnie74 · 07/06/2015 12:26

mrsd that is such good news. So so chuffed for you! 12+4 that's so fab! Grin

longestlurkerever · 07/06/2015 12:27

Hello everyone! Sorry, I have a feeling I am going to have a hard time keeping up from now on but I will continue to lurk and hope for your happy endings and will post if I can add anything useful.

Thank you so much for your warm words and congratulations on Beth's birth. You really are an amazing bunch of women that you can go through what you are and be happy for others too. I love you all!

Feeling reasonably human today after a better night's sleep. Better than in late pregnancy in fact. Is starting to sink in that my dreamed for family of four is here. I doubt I will ever forget the mcs but I am so, so grateful that the journey is over.

I found out yesterday that the sick baby from my antenatal thread passed away on Beth's birthday. A cruel and timely reminder to always cherish what I have. Rest in peace, baby Juliette, and all the lost babies who were very much loved.

barking I really hope your dad improves. Huge hugs.

mrs d fab news! Fx for more good scans and bfps.

tiny totally up for a heath meet. What else is mat leave for eh?

Marchgirl · 07/06/2015 12:51

Great scan news diddly Grin

Glad you're doing ok longest and that you are getting a bit of sleep at least. So sad to hear about your friend's baby. How utterly heartbreaking. Can't even imagine what she must be going through. However hard this journey is for us, it seems there is always someone going through something harder.

Flen · 07/06/2015 12:57

Great news diddly!

barking Just can't imagine how hard it is, I am a complete daddy's girl and I would find it incredibly hard. I think the tears are totally understandable, but I wish you didn't have more grief on top of what you are already going through.

CheesyMash · 07/06/2015 13:23

Welcome Kazz and Annie, so sorry for your losses, hope you find lots of support here x

barking sorry your dad has gotten worse and on top of that you had to see the mat ward and everything that goes with it. Sad

longest that is so so sad about baby Juliette. X

diddly amazing! Smile can't believe you're that far along already! Although I'm sure it feels forever to you.

sebs good luck with testing, but even if af shows, it sounds like you're in a much better place and are much happier. I'm really pleased for you in this respect. Also, great news about DHs promotion.

flen Ive been meaning to say sorry about bfn for last cycle but don't think I did, sorry! Hoping the adjustment to the progesterone will help and you'll get your BFP this time!

I think I'm ovulating today (as we speak) and DH is away on a stag do, due back this afternoon. Waiting for him to get home so I can pounce on him! Ha!
I saw the gynaecologist yesterday and he says he'd write to my gp recommending he prescribe the coventry protocol. Phew! He also said good luck with the next pregnancy which I thought was a nice touch.

sebsmummy1 · 07/06/2015 13:47

Errr I seem to have some news Confused

Recurrent Miscarriage Support Thread 24 - tests, treatment, trying again.
girliesaints · 07/06/2015 13:56

And Sebs?

sebsmummy1 · 07/06/2015 14:00

I added a photo lol. I'm pregnant!!! Grin

Marchgirl · 07/06/2015 14:30

Woohoo!!! Brilliant news sebs. So happy for you Grin. Here's to a very boring and normal 8 months ahead

Brummiegirl15 · 07/06/2015 14:34

Hah brilliant!!!!!

See, life happens when you are making plans!! Grin

That fab news congrats xx

I got through security without having to pull true cyclogest out...

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barkingtreefrog · 07/06/2015 14:39

Brilliant news mrsd Grin Grin Grin Grin SO pleased for you Grin Grin Grin Grin.

longest enjoy your lovely family Grin Grin.

Sebs no!!!! Shock I'm very happy for you but I'm also Angry that you're giving fuel to my friends (and MiL) who tell me after 3.5 years that I should stop trying and then it will magically happen Wink. Please tell me you hadn't really given up? Wink

barkingtreefrog · 07/06/2015 14:41

Thanks for the messages about my dad - Flen I've always been closest to my Dad too, it's just horrible.

brummie that's a relief! Grin

Brummiegirl15 · 07/06/2015 14:48

I did panic though as started to feel damp and ran to loo thinking "oh my god please don't let me be miscarrying at Heathrow"

Of course i wasn't. But the fear never ever leaves you does it?

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