Recurrent Miscarriage Support thread 13 - tests, treatment, trying again

[bakingtins]

Welcome everyone! A thread for anyone who has experienced recurrent miscarriages and is in need of information, companionship, tea and sympathy. Newbies welcome to join at any stage.

Start with the traditional recap please......

Erica, I'd been told before I might have a heart shaped uterus the but it was st Marys who confirmed and removed the septum. Part of the issue is that your uterus changes shape in pg so its not clear.

Dh just home and woken me up no point trying to settle until he's come to bed.

Good luck Longest x

Good luck longest xx

Good luck today longest

Good luck today longest.
boozle, hope everything went ok at St Marys. Thinking of you

Yes, hope it goes well today Longest.

Boozle, how are you? x

erica fwiw after my erpc i bled bright red blood for a day or so thrn went to briwn bug stopped pretty quickly. then af arrived as normal 30ish days later xx

Fingers and toes crossed for you Longest. We're just waiting to hear the results of the hcg tests and to see if they're high enough to do a scan. My cervix was closed and uterus was soft but she couldn't see an obvious reason for the bleed and she said that the cramping I'm in unfortunately isn't a positive sign, especially because of my history. Fingers crossed for this morning!

for boozle it's so horrid being worried with no real answers.

Boozle big hugs. Fwiw I have had cramping on and off throughout this one. Cervix being closed is good. I have everything crossed.

Thank you everyone. It means a lot to have you rooting for me x

boozle i had some cramping which was stretching pains...

with my 5mc i only had bleeding with 1 and 3 because I wasn't sent for early scans with those so got to 10 and 8 weeks and I started bleeding...

All fingers crossed!

Good luck today longest and keeping everything crossed for you boozle

Hi to new ladies - sorry you find yourselves here

Just waiting to be scanned and I'm terrified. DP couldn't get today off so I'm on my own and feel like im going to hurl. I don't want to be told my baby's dead again :(

For the millionth time, thank goodness for you ladies. See you on the other side!

Hand hold boozle. Feel tearful for you but hopeful all is well. Maybe not the right moment to say this but everything was fine at mine. Measuring 10w+5. Such a relief! X

Good news lurker and GOOD LUCK boozle

Good luck boozle thinking of you

for your good news longest next stop 12 week scan.

So sorry you are so worried boozle I hope you at least get answers as quickly as possible.
longest hang in there. I can soaK up the doom I think a bit more won't matter to mE.

Longest it's always the right time for good news - that's wonderful - bet you feel 10 times lighter! Roll on the 12 week scan and more good news :)

Thanks boozle . Really hoping you get your good news too. X

Today, I am pregnant!!! Whoop whoop!

I've got a bit of blood in my uterus which probably caused the bleeding but all looks normal, phew!

woohoo!!!

Yeahhhhh

Hi ladies, I'm new too. Was recommended this thread by bakingtins who kindly replied to me on another board. I'm so sorry that everyone here has to go through this crapness, but very grateful to not be alone with it. I have no children.

I had a MMC with no visible embryo in early 2011 (previous partner) - waited in the end for a month till 11.5 weeks for it to exit the building. No pain relief (rubbish hospital advice), did it at home and was traumatised afterwards.

I had a regular miscarriage at about 6 weeks this summer.

Yesterday I had a scan at 8 weeks revealing another MMC with no visible embryo. Not up for waiting this time, so trying to choose between medical management and ERPC. Torn because I just want it over with, the less pain and gore the better, but I don't want to damage my insides with an overenthusiastic vacuum hose...

Do you have any thoughts about which to go for? I hope that's an ok question to ask.

Many thanks