@FusionChefGeoff brilliant news! In the midst of life's trauma's it really helps to share will people who will listen, hear and understand. However, in real life, sharing difficult information with close friends and family often results in you supporting them. My dd had ovarian cancer in her early 20's and her most hated phrase was "well at least... " (because it was usually followed by some inane comment that comforted the person saying it, but did not help her a jot) e.g. 'at least you're young' (how does that make it better?) 'at least you're not still at university' (
??) and when she told her closest friend that the cells were malignant: 'at least it's not cancer - that's lethal'
Anyway, very, glad to hear that things are OK, and very happy that you could lean on the community here.
@nowlook another one who loves the 'all shall be well... ' quote. I also love the (start) of the Horatio Spafford hymn All is well with my soul
When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Life hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.
(Refrain:) It is well (it is well),
with my soul (with my soul),
It is well, it is well with my soul.
(after that it gets a bit 'religious') but HS wrote it after his 4 children drowned in a sea crossing from US to England - miraculously his wife survived. I don't know what my 'soul' is, but somehow there are moments when all around is truly crap and awful and disastrous, and yet somewhere deep inside there is core of me that just keeps on going, and is steady and OK... and here endeth the philosophical musings 
And @nowlook laughing at never broken so much as a sweat that's me too. I'll plod along for miles walking, but run?? In fact when I was 5 and it was our first school sports day, my mum explained to me that I had to wait till the starter's shout then run to the finish. Apparently, I looked horrified and said, 'No, I think I'll just walk'. Which I did. And I still got a lollipop 
@Random789 alcohol / weight loss = dehydration. Unfortunately a glass of water might see a +0.6
or maybe that's just me.
In other news... It's May, it's mid afternoon it should be glorious and sunny and warm and bright. Instead it is 6 degrees, with an additional cold wind for chill factor. I've got the central heating on. It's so dark and dull that I've got the lights on. I blame Brexit, now that we're no longer part of Europe we don't get to share their lovely weather. God help us if Scotland separates from the warmth of the South East...