I seem to have missed a thread.....still bootcamping away, just haven't been posting.
After a couple of stalled weeks the scales are moving down, and another 2lb lost, so I've now lost half a stone, hooray. I feel so much better already; waistbands are no longer digging in, and my bra is looser (still some podge to shift, though).
I have had two small cheats over the last few weeks - a chocolate fondant on my birthday (sorry not sorry) and a not-very-low-carb pub meal last weekend. But I think as long as they are "one-offs" you can get away with it, AS LONG AS the one-offs don't become two-offs and three-offs (which is so easy to fall into).
I'm another one who really doesn't like the taste or the idea of artificial sweeteners, and would rather forego cakey things entirely. I just stick with yogurt creamy things, topped with berries and a little sprinkle of cocoa nibs, or cocoa flaxseed. I made some satay sauce the other day with Splenda (it had a load of lime juice in, so needed a sweetener) and it was ghastly. Weirdly, the family troughed it down without complaint.
Someone mentioned upthread about how to decide your target weight - surely you just know what's right for you? I'm 10 stone 3, and still a bit tubby. I went down to 9 stone last time I low-carbed, and that was way too low - it might have been fine when I was a pert 17yo, but made me look very gaunt. So my target is around 9 stone 10. I've no idea where that is on the BMI charts, but it feels right for me now. That will be a stone lost in total.