I'm 58 and through and out the other side of the menopause. I have to say I think I've been very lucky. The only real problems I experienced, from peri menopause onwards, were the hot flushes. But these were noticeably reduced when I kept my carbs low - another, unexpected benefit of low carbing!
I also took Boots Menolieve, which really helped. As my mum died from breast cancer (and had also been taking HRT), I'm not going down the HRT route, so I'm very glad that it's been a fairly easy path for me.
I have no idea if it's related, but I suffered very rarely from PMT (occasionally used to have one very 'down' day beforehand), or period pains, and also very swift (and therefore relatively less painful) labours.
Now I'm post menopausal, the thing that does give me concern is bone density/thinning (and therefore osteoporosis), which is part of the reason for keeping up an exercise routine. Once the weather improves a bit I'm picking the running up again, as that is apparently a good weight-bearing exercise.