Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone? Part 22

[Monty100]

Yay, did I make it to the bar first again??

I think he may already have one of those janos ...

no do eve, tell me which one, I'll put a profile up as well and do my usual magnetising all the loonies leaving you to find a nice blokey!

Aahhh. Had reply from one of said decent types on GS. He says 'I'd like to hear more from you'.

I HATE that. WTF do you SAY?

Yes ninah think you may be right...ouch

omg kdk what a catch! I think you should ask him where he got that bra from in his pic cos it's lovely

not been feeling too well today, bf's response was 'maybe i had the love bug!' and he seems to have been worried he said it afterwards lol!

belle and juice-glad things are still going well for both of you

ninah-I wouldnt be happy with ex/nm's son and being treated that way, u def need to have 'the chat'

janos-Hello nice to see you around again!

Hi to everyone else

betty is this the first time the L word has reared its head?

Janos, I hate that type of question too. I would reply something like 'so what would you like to know?'

nice one betty
go for it janos - back at you mr
or you could tell him everything you have just learned about gay brothels

yes ninah, he said he was joking but then later said he didnt meant to be heavy it just came out and he hoped I was ok about it? wasnt really sure what to think!

I think he is lovely
genuine, nice bloke
you ARE ok about it, aren't you?
betty and boilerman up a tree k-i-s-s-i-n-g etc

Good idea to ask what he wants to know, mention you have a lot to tell.

The only one I could afford is Plenty of Shit, sorry POF, or Zoosk which is a bit of a dead loss as it's not really free. Not sure I can face either tbh, but I'm not going out much so how else am I going to find a good shag man.

I've been a bit creeped out recently. You will have heard of the troubles in my county with the shootings, well on the news I glanced a photo of the gunman with his top off and a shiver went down my spine as I felt I had seen the photo before, won't say much else, but it's quite possible.

where are you eve? Lots of women seem to have done okay on PoF - just seems to be men in london and the south east that are truly bloody awful! You could try OK Cupid - though it has a fair few loons/would-be slaves/trannies but if you're not fussy/don't mind/are okay with pressing delete most of the time .... but agree with you that knowing where to look when the net doesn't really do it for you, is a hard one.

Lol at you lot with ds.

Betty - ooer I think he's smitten!

Ninah - sorry I meant to comment on the sitting in the back of the car. I would be fuming. I'd feel like I was tagging along with them. Grrr!

oh yuck eve
that would creep me out too
every population has its nutcases, online and rl, i think our collective radar is probably reasonably strong

It looked like one of those photos, iyswim, saw a few from that area, similar age and occupation. The type you would ignore.

KDK, I'm up north in the sticks, a few on POF were OK last time I was on it.

I was fuming monty
I stood there and said where i am going to sit then and he kind of smiled weakly and said, lots of room and held the door for me
he is trying desperately hard to please now but in all the wrong ways, i have to put him out of his misery and tell him what's up
but after friday's exam
eve I would love to find a reliable non online source of men too
are you still in touch with salesman? what happened about your road trip?

exactly though - the type you would ignore

Completely off-topic and absolutely no disrespect meant in view of what's happened but I thought it was bloody typical that it took days for the papers to come out with what he was doing in Thailand and Russia. Papers are quick enough to label women as prostitutes but take their time saying why this creep was going to Thailand to pay women for sex - now some are saying he was sent over the edge when a Thai woman ripped him off - that's right, blame it on a woman - he was really a nice, reasonable bloke till a woman tampered with his mind ....

Oh eve, how creepy

ninah - what happened? Actually no need rehash it I'll check upthread, being lazy. Sounds awful.

Yes KDK, at first it was reported he was going to Thailand because of his passion for diving.

Ninah - I'd give it to him all barrels, the ds that is. But you need to forget about it til fri.

Kdk - I was reading that this morning. I was thinking more about the man's poor wife.

kdk - that's EXACTLY what I thought when they said he went off on holidays to Thailand.

Also wondering how long before a woman would be blamed...always happened somewhere along the line doesn't it?

Yes, like men just like visiting Amsterdam for the culture - oh and the canals!

oh i didn't read that bit kdk
god those poor thai girls, can you imagine
janos nothing major just nm/ex/fwb whatever he is has been letting his ds treat me what I thought, and now has been confirmed, as quite rudely! not worth trawling, just needed some perpective
which I got loud and clear