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Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone? Part 21

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Monty100 · 04/05/2010 22:35

Did anyone beat me to it??

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thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 19:24

oh I agree juicy - that is SOOOOOOO not fair. come on girl! what gift? and is it that one from FB?

sin - ooh any worth a good ogling of? I vote something nice and slinky but still tasteful and elegant if you have a choice on dress ware.

lou - did you expect him to? - idiot man thou surely he must of known the kids would be worried.

sm haven't but how about witch hazel can you then put make up over that? also new wardrobe - sounds FANTASTIC!!

sponge - glad you're sorted now as well & also to add to the packet for wedding man.

pmg - how do you feel about going out from the house all together? fingers crossed he'll come to his senses thou if it's what you want.

elastmum - tbh it's what ever you chose it to be - go out & get drunk or go back to his, up to you really on what you're comfortable with.

hi monty hope you're ok
where's pirate, blondie, ninah, eve?

ooh Soldier's just claimed to be my man... [scared!!!!!] never gave him that promotion!

Betty79 · 14/05/2010 19:28

Ooh belle, sorry missed u out before....claimed to be ur man huh! depends wether you want him to be tho? He comments on your fb a lot tho doesnt he lol? He's def keen

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 19:30

lol. yeah I know he's keen, I dunno we'll see ho hum, he can do for a play thing for a while.

(think we crossed posts.) tbh I think it shows that boilerman's a gent - however, I could review that thought if he makes us you wait longer than the w.e to find out what the pressie is. lol. honestly thou he does sound a nice chap. what are you going to do on Sunday?

Betty79 · 14/05/2010 19:38

lol yeah think he's prob a gent, well hoping thats the reason. I noticed he'd had his hair cut when he came over yest which I thought was quite sweet. And he told me about going to speak to his ex about divorcing this week, so I think there are good signs even tho he is still seperated. Anyway have managed to get a babysitter sorted so will be going to a local chinese buffet yum and for a few drinks I expect

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 19:40

ooh come on spill it then a) is he on your FB yet, and how longs he been separated?

Betty79 · 14/05/2010 19:49

a) yes he's on my fb thats how we started talking (well via zoosk), and he's been sperated nearly a year, well thats what he's told me anyway!

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 19:54

ooh thats right i remember now - lets see then - will try to spot him on there.

SingleMum01 · 14/05/2010 19:55

Betty - sounding good with boilerman and good that he's just kissed.

Belle - how's he claimed to be your man?? What's he said??

Juice - come back we need details

Mrs M - thanks for advice.

Still on a high after buying a size 10 today - must be more than 10 years! See dating is good for something - weightloss if nothing else!!

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 20:03

he asked what I was doin, I said am under a blanket, with a brew, choc about to watch a DVD only thing missin is a man, and laughed he said as your man i'm there in my head - ok then!!! I asked who sad he was my man he said he did lol. subject was then changed.

size 10's - YAY!!! what did you buy?

Betty79 · 14/05/2010 20:06

woohoo to size 10 sm!

I forgot to add earlier, my nan came home today they are not operating gonna try and mananage things with drugs cos they dont think her heart would take another major op
fingers crossed it works

kdk · 14/05/2010 20:07

Talking about size 10 - I was for about a year just before I stopped smoking .... bought three pairs of gorgeous trousers which now won't go halfway up my thighs - do I accept that I am never going to be a 10 again and charity shop them .... or keep them cluttering up my wardrobe reminding me of days gone past.

And am I the only one finding this a bit odd ...

"Hi Dearie,

How are you? I hope you are doing good out there.. I was browsing through profiles and I found yours interesting, you are really a Damsel, just cant take my eyes away from you... I am very much interested in getting to know you and I hope you dont mind...

I will like us to get to know each other more better than what we have on here, learn more things about ourselves, I will like you to write me an email telling me more about you, this is my email address, [email protected], I will reply you telling you about me, we can also chat on MSN messenger, I think thats the best way of communication, add me on MSN, my email is the same with my ID on there. I hope to hear from you soon.. chat pretty soon.. Take care. Kisses and Hugs...

Ken

Expecting your response soon... "

something about it is odd ... not sure why

SingleMum01 · 14/05/2010 20:12

Belle - I bought 2 pairs of crops and 2 pairs of shorts - some were a 12 but still I was the upper end of a 14 in Jan!

kdk - the language is a bit odd, sounds like my nan used to talk. How old is he and where is he from??

Betty79 · 14/05/2010 20:12

He sounds foreign kdk? cos his language is odd!

SingleMum01 · 14/05/2010 20:13

Belle - forgot to say love your fb picture, no way do you need to lose any weight.

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 20:14

kdk - not the only one no - delete it, it's either after the whole cyber sex thing, or tbh if that was a cut and paste a bit freaky. the bottoms - keep em - as the I will get into them one day jeans - honest they're good to have. lol. (i'll never get into mine but hey ho!)

betty - it's not obv.... do we have any clues so we can check him out?

kdk · 14/05/2010 20:14

Am very impressed SM - what's your secret? I have been trying WW and have lost a stone in the past eight months but have just been a bit off track for the past few weeks - I need to fall in lurve - that's usually good for half a stone!

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 20:17

thanks there was a hell of a lot of support goin on lol.

and at going form a 14-12 so soon, I think 10lb off and i'll be happy with that.

also glad you mentioned about the english on there- didn't want to say it but that was my thoughts as well.

kdk · 14/05/2010 20:18

The guy claims to be 45 and originally from Canada but who knows? He's on Dating for Parents and goes by the (odd) name of nightcrawler1965

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 20:18

KDK! honest how do you loose it when in love - I gain it loads, then split up n loose it plus more.

kdk · 14/05/2010 20:23

I think it's that thing when you first meet and get really excited and forget to eat/are too busy ... then of course you get used to each other and end up staying in eating pringles and drinking wine and gain it all back!

Betty79 · 14/05/2010 20:31

I tend to loose weight when I like someone, as I'm more conscious of my figure!

As for boilerman, dont really want to give too much away dont think you'd get who he is without me putting his initials here, he has a black shirt on in his profile pic. We havent commented on each others fb at all, only emailed through it

lou33 · 14/05/2010 20:49

ffs where is that juice woman!

thesouthsbelle · 14/05/2010 20:54

lou. I know v rude of her to leave us here like this. lol.

Betty79 · 14/05/2010 20:56

ano its like she has a life or something.........and on a similar note where is asbm?

lou33 · 14/05/2010 21:05

v inconsiderate of both of them

and what about janos, where the hell has she fucked off to?!

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