dom - arranged to meet up. try not to get to involved emotionally till you meet up. he could look very different to when you last met. as could you.also,... since you initiated the split with ex, you will bounce back pretty quickly.
elasta - tbh... that sounds like the very respectful, enjoyable type of casual thing we were trying to describe earlier. you wont really be able to ever have a full on live together type relationship. but every month you will do all the nice dinner /date type stuff and get some action ... really depends if this suits you. if your quite independant with a lack of time when dc are away to their dads... it is actually a pretty good arrangement. but........... careful he hasn't a wife overseas.
dont add to fb. i tell them its like reading my text messages.i only have people on their who wont take the humour the wrong way.
plus... i like to retain a little mystery.
dont reply to munters.
agree you should also fancy them. but there have been some where i wasn't sure.. and when we met in rl i thought "phwoaar"
motorola was round last night. forgot to bring my things , as was planning on finishing it last night when i got them... i'm getting pissed off. not sure i can hold off till i have the stuff back to finish it. it's really hard being nice last night. and not just being a sarky cow , this is why i hate leaving stuff in early days of relationships. but i cant very well say no when someone asks outright for something to watch/borrow after he had helped out in garden and brought over foods made specifically for my dietary requirements.
i dont think i'll accept help from any fellas i'm dating EVER again. this is a flipping nightmare.
eve - very pleased you have your head seeing athletic for what he is.
forces has been in contact. thats him out of range again till thurs/friday. he wants me to go to hanover at his expense when dc dad gets back.(seperate rooms if i haven't forgiven him and am just going as friends ) but i've said i think i'll be going to see a friend in weymouth if i do get a wkd dc free and the weather is still lovely.