where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone PT20

[Betty79]

Has no one beat me to it with a new thread yet?

Oh that's lovely Pirate. Hope it goes well.

ah lovely. pirates cakes and cats. excellent meeting i think

i'm babysitting. i have total of 3 under 5yo including my 2 for the day :-s

Morning all, I have a lovely day of washing and ironing planned

Hopefully DS' mates will be around to play to keep him occupied!

PS - pc when are you meeting cake?

today, this will be our second date, i think it's going to work out .

morning, loads of online activity last night. winker with the messages in his profile still winking.A new person got put on msn and he and i chatted last night for a while. had to get in there quick as we don't get many newbies on the site for my area !!!

Hi everyone been, been messaging a few guys on POF, but my heart is not in it TBH. Don't know whether to hang in there and hope something comes of it, or just dereg.

Part of me is just scared I think and part of me is still hankering after someone else.

Guy who asked me to add him on FB sent me a humphy message saying I guess you won't be adding me on FB, so I said no and explained why and that I would prefer to talk on pof for now so he said, well how about msn? I delelted him. Those were his first two messages and did not make a good impression.

I don't know maybe I am too cynical ATM.

Have read through thread and think I have everyone's situations right in my head, and will ry to keep up with the thread.

Janos - sorry to hear about the cheat.
BertieBotts - hi after a knobhead bf it is sometimes just nice to encounter a guy and see what is possible with a nice guy isn't it!? Gives you hope.
Eve - not familiar with the whole of the story of the guy turning up at your house but sounds like you have made the right decision, good for you.
Lou - your bf sounds like a keeper

pc - have a lovely time with cake

Silverlining - maybe you shouldn't if you're hearts not in it, unless you see it as just good practice for when the real thing comes along

RAF guy sending me lots of text messages, he seems to have a thing for stockings - don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing to be told on the 1st date! - although he said it in a very cheeky way so could be forgiven

morning ladies, need to try and catch up with you all but gotta get dressed and go pick up dc's from my mums in a bit. Went out with the girls last night, chinese buffet then into town for a few. Boilerman text me to say he was out and would meet me later if i wanted to, didnt end up happening due to fact my mate fell over and has poss broke her foot! But have already arranaged to meet tues anyway, and I know full well if i had bumped into him drunk i prob would have took him home

hi to all the new ladies, will def be back later to properly catch up. planning on a lazy day today and gonna try and get some stuff on ebay!

silver - your doing well if you can suss out whats going on with everyone. i cant even suss out whats going on with me .. never mind anyone else sussing my situ out.

you can be on pof. and not actually have to meet anyone. just leave profile on. if you get an interesting email you can reply. dont look at it as looking for a date. mostly just and chating/emailing service at the moment.

betty - nothing wrong with adopting a known stray for a night

pc - is he talking about stocking before you have had a first date? or have you already had it. i'm confused now from that post

sm01 is he current or ex RAF?

Hi everyone

Juice - what's the latest?

ASBM you're back! . Hope you're having a nice bank holiday weekend.

Ninah - how's the decorating going?

Belle - lol at marine being gay.

Eve - you out and about today? Got something nice planned?

Hi to all the new posters and everyone else

The Monty household is still very disappointed in the weather . Was supposed to be nice but its now raining on my washing . I'm getting in the shower, dp will be here at some point and we'll probably go for a drive.

ASBM - current raf, recently signed up for another 8 years. Is that good or bad??

Juice - had 1st date yesterday, he said it on the 1st date, but he is a very cheeky jokey bloke so although I'm I'm also !! iyswim

SM - that is cheeky. But I quite like cheeky .

Monty - me too, I hope I don't regret it though!

wash-out here and we've had hail stones
sm01 was just a tad concerned that it was a muppet bloke from my past that's all..he needs to have a warning attached to him he's a total bastard
i guess that at least this fella has been v upfront about what he's after...sex!!

ASBM - is it your bloke???

what my dp?

Although he's a cheeky chappie, I do have a bit of a red flag that that is all he wants (although obviously don't mind if it leads to that eventually!!), though my profile clearly says I'm not up for that. So you reckon he hasn't read my profile, or is he just trying it on regardless?!

ASBM - lol!

PS he said he'd has messages from pictures of women in underwear and had replied that there were other sites just for that sort of thing. That's why I'm confused (hoping) he isn't just after sex

sm - it's good 8 years least you know what to expect. that's nothing tbh. glad the date went well. oh ref the stockings thing - i'm a bit 'meh' when it comes to the sex sort of stuff - if they want to talk about it then ok either way - but there's a line I won't cross and if they do then they're told and binned off. least it was after the first date lol.

monty - enjoy your drive.

silver - you did right I think - nothing wrong at all with a bit of emailing then msn after - I also delete those tho instantly ask for my msn.

raven - glad it was a good night.

lou - we like bf

elastmum - good luck with chap - does he have a name yet?

pirate - have a good time with cake.

juicy - can I chuck my one over with you as well - please!?!? lol.

blondie/ninah/dom/ all others hello. hope you'e not suffering cabin fever!

well this end DS has the pox - oh the joy not that you'd know it so a week off work for me at month end time YAY! (no really!) lol. gonna be having a nice ogle later at marine. soldier's exercise started today which in someways is good as it means there will be less texting which had become a bit well much. still only way to get to know each other at the mo.

thing is thou if he's really really into it and you're not then better to know straight away I guess? doesn't mean he's only interested in sex -0 but if it's ALL he talks about it's a bit

he's def a shagger imho
without giving too much away here how old is he?

ASBM - 41, sound familiar??

PS - has 2 kids which he has alternate weekends

the one i knew would be almost 43 now...let's hope he's being truthful with his age!!
he has blue eyes and brown hair and two ds