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where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone PT19

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 24/03/2010 11:35

blimey do we really talk that much?!
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pinksmarties · 10/04/2010 09:28

Was lovely to meet everyone. x

passmyglassplease · 10/04/2010 09:35

morning all, just coughing up those ciggies I had last night!!

It was lovely to meet you guys and have a bit of a giggle, here's to the next meet up.

sincity, is he back then?

I get my 2 this evening, its my last day of freedom so far I have been for a run, cleaned the bathroom, watered the window boxes, and am now contemplating my next chore!

Betty79 · 10/04/2010 09:53

SM01-dont panic yet he may have just been very busy, stressed or tired and thought that he was going to see u anyway so wanted to leave enough to talk about tonight?

Glad you london ladies had a great time!

Eve-dont think i will be voting tory either, think they will cut help for single parents a lot!

Belle-Hope you have a good time on ur date with farmer, tbh i dont think i'd tell him just see how it goes its only a date after all.

Im still chatting to trucker but think it's more as friends than anything else, but that's fine with me. Still meeting fireman sunday for lunch, and poss got a date next week with another bloke i've been chatting too will call him seaside man. My friends have started calling me a serial dater lol and anyway I cant let Juice take the crown that easily

mrsmharket · 10/04/2010 11:10

morning everyone
hows the heads to all the london ladies

i gotta go get quilt from launderette, it was too big to fit in my washer so have had to pay a 5er for the privilege of using someone else's bigger washer lol

speak soon

oh btw neighbour actually spoke yesterday lol wanted to tell me he felt sick (he not long come out of hospital again cos of kidney stones) didn't ask how i was tho after what happened lol

will catch up soon not sure when tho as have dd all week now so bye for now ladies

mrsmharket · 10/04/2010 11:12

it will prob be part 20 something by then lmao speak soon byeeeeeeeeee

lou33 · 10/04/2010 11:36

well come on now spill the gossip ffs

sincitylover · 10/04/2010 12:40

head improving just having a bacon and egg sandwich!!

Don't think any gossip as such it was just a pleasant rather drunken evening. Loads to talk about could have done with longer.

Those present

kdk
monty
pink smarties
sponge
passmyglass

and me

three from north london and three from south. Monty is my nearest mnetter from that group.

on the way home bumped into a RL friend who I haven't seen for ages she said I really reeked of alcohol!!

so all in all a great evening

Remotew · 10/04/2010 12:58

Oh glad it went well. Sponge made it then, fantastic.

I'm still undressed on this lovely day. Going to get a nice bath, then to town to have a look in next and booked a table at the italian for happy hour. Hoping to have a catch up over a glass of something with a mate tonight.

Got a missed call at stupid o'clock last night. Still waiting to hear if it's on for Monday. Will take my phone up tonight. I know you shouldn't answer after 10 o'clock etc according to the rules but think this time there are no rules.

Wonder where the others are from last night, surely not nursing sore heads.

SM01, wait and see what happens. Don't fret so much, easier said than done, I know.

kdk · 10/04/2010 13:14

Hi all - god my head hurts - can't think why though ...

Bacon sandwich sounds good but sadly no bacon left and feeling too shocking to go to shops.

Very nice time though and have to do it again - when I've left it long enough for me to forget why I don't drink!

Monty100 · 10/04/2010 13:41

Well, here I am at last! I couldn't get logged in last night or today so have come in through Explorer. Don't know what that's all about. I wrote a really long post this morning and it went into the etheral when I logged in. (or whatever that word is)

Well, last night was really lovely and we had full attendance . It was brilliant to meet everyone. There were certainly no awkward silences and the wine was flowing lol. It was still flowing when I left, I was the first to leave and got home about 9.30. Thanks for a lovely evening everyone, will definitely have to do it again.

Am a wee bit jaded today.

SM - I'm sure all will be fine.

I've got to get on now it's taken me ages to log on. grrr Me and dd are having lunch on the patio.

SingleMum01 · 10/04/2010 13:57

Hi all London ladies - sounds like your night was good

thanks for the support, see what happens. I hate feeling so insecure, but I guess you gotta be innit to winnit!

lou33 · 10/04/2010 14:30

you all sound like you had fun

its lovely here today, bf sounds like he enjoyed himself last night, and i am currently being besieged by my boys to rehome a yr old terrier cross that they have seen advertised

dd1 is 18 tomorrow (gulp)

SingleMum01 · 10/04/2010 15:24

Lou - have a lovely day tomorrow

Monty100 · 10/04/2010 15:39

Lou - happy birthday for dd1 tomorrow .

Just roped exh in to cutting back a massive apple tree in my garden .

Dp is keeping busy doing the rooms at his house and has asked me to come over .

Kdk - hope you're feeling better lol.

Was good fun .

kdk · 10/04/2010 16:53

Have just got up after trying to have a hangover-reducing nap - DTs deciding to play hide and seek very noisily outside and in my bedroom put paid to any sleeping but was good to shut my eyes - feeling a bit better. Wish kids were old enough to be sent to shop to buy bacon sarnies and large bottle of lucozade though ...

Happy Birthday to your dd for tomorrow Lou.

Monty100 · 10/04/2010 17:41

OK guys - the phone was on video so we don't have pics we have videos!!!!

I've uploaded it to fb, happy to take them off later. There's one of Pink and Sponge but it won't upload grrr.

Got to go to Sainsbo's.

thesouthsbelle · 10/04/2010 18:19

right just got in so will makr my place read back and then fill you all in on the date with farmer......

ninah · 10/04/2010 18:32

hello all, back from a few days away didn't make it as far as Ireland sadly, left it so late ferries were ££ but beaches and sunshine, yay!
Will have to catch up everthing unless anyone can give me a run down - juicy? most of all I want to know what's happening re forces
and i see the london fitties had a meet up
and no I will not be voting tory now or ever
Bit of a dilemma. Had quite a nice time with nm/ex
we came back early cos his son 'wants to come home'
I am not being v understanding I am afraid. In fact I am pissed off something rotten, as this is about the only child free time we have. Ever. We still have a free night tonight and he wants me to go out but i am feeling really meh about coming back to empty house, and as I told him I am sick of being in a relationship where we go our separate ways
it's been dragging on nearly two years now you see
he just says what can I do
I think I am going to have to bite the bullet and dump him fully
but i am a bit scared as I literally have no one else round here I can rely on as easily in a crisis
I need some words of wisdom

ninah · 10/04/2010 18:33

yes and I know I sound selfish
I most likely am

BertieBotts · 10/04/2010 18:37

Glad the meet up went well. My date went very well indeed! Still ing although he did only leave about an hour ago. Should see him once more this week, then nothing until he is next down. Hopefully that will be before July but if not then never mind, I am sure I will survive! XP tried to drop DS off half an hour early so I texted saying I was out (he picks him up from the end of the street) - then we went to get some food (as was the plan anyway) and ended up coming back 20 minutes late ourselves, which I know was petty but he is never on time to pick up or drop off. He didn't say anything but he did drive rather slowly up the street to turn around rather than doing a u-turn as he normally does, I assume to get a good look at NM! Subtlety was never his strong point...

Hope all went well with the farmer Southsbelle!

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 10/04/2010 18:46

evening all,

sounds like you had a good meet up.

betty - you can have the crown. my profile is hidden again. wont be going on anymore dates for the moment.

mr motorola made me all wkd.

he wants to come round tomorrow and do my gardening if the weather is still great.

i've tried to tell him no.... but i've run out of excuses as he has a solution for them all

oh well..... i did try and maintain my resolve to do all chores..even if manly.. myself.

hey... all those loved up types... is this sign of a keeper??? ... he pretended to go for a pee in the morning and returned with a cup of tea for me to have in bed

ninah · 10/04/2010 18:48

omg life HAS moved on lol!
motorola? crikey juice I can't keep up
he sounds nice though {grin]

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 10/04/2010 18:56

x posts - hi ninah. i'm not best to ask whats going on. will try but not been too great with keeping up.

me - forces got his final marching orders after messing around and deciding to stay on pof as it was "big step".. this was after a big chat the wkd before. him agreeing to be removed and very much committed and he offered to meet kids. then does that few days later as "scared. he got told to grow some balls and piss off. been on few dates with mr motorola. who lives very very local. which is handy. he's a toyboy

belle - went on date with farmer... while wishing farmer was marine.. but think she may like farmer now too as has suitably lovely arse to match marines.

eve - has had interest from salesman.. trying to arrange a hook up with althetic toyboy, and a text from an old flame she's not expanding on.

asbm, lou, passmy - still all loved up.

betty - off and running with crown.

bb - nice sounding nm. not long out old relationship.

pink - nm has met her mum.

everyone else is up to their eyes in work, etc.

oh and kdk was emailing poker bigamist(well.. not biggamet.. but man of many wives)... not sure if she's gonna have a little fun or has given that up.

scl - had childfree week. but been strong on soh front i think and avoided exbf's.

cant think of anyone else. and trying to do baths

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 10/04/2010 19:06

hey... video's of last night looks great. what a bunch of fab looking women you guys are!!!!... i prefer its videos. you guys look great animated in comparison to just a photograph.

thesouthsbelle · 10/04/2010 19:16

ninah - is this the same one as before who was separated then divorced but said he wasn't ready for a relationship?

bertie hiya & glad your date went well as well.

sin & london girls - glad you all had a fab night out.

monty - did you get to DP's?

lou - happy birthday to your DD.

betty check you out. hope they're goodun's.

sm - play it by ear, and pull back a bit - see if he comes to you.

blondie - did that, but they won't tell me a thing at all - nada, not who's complained or indeed what's been said. aside from being out today since I got in they havent' barked once. & when I got back I walked down the drive & into the back garden before they started & then it was only a whine as they wanted a wee.

have text farmer to say thanks for a fab afternoon. chap is v charming, total fit ass, yummy body - ahem sorry not all about that is it. was a right giggle, deffo mate I think. he said he'd tell me what he thought later on. played crazy golf had a few drinks & was goin ok till I spil dribbled some coke down my chin - not good at all, total wrong impression. says he has the measure of me (slightly worried!)

off to read more....

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