Where are all the fit, interesting and available men pt 16

[Janos]

Yep, it's still going....

Part 15 still lurking about, I believe.

oooh yes i like my men tall too...means i can wear heels lol
any pref on hair/eye colour sponge?
if you're interested in fella on match i'd just keep it as messages for now til you decide if you want a proper chat with him.make him work for your no i'd say
juicy any more lined up??!!
lou it's lovely to see you so happy

dont think i'll be on any dates this week. hopefully manage to keep my friend from her crazy bloke if i spend my free time with her and distract her.

makes a change doesnt it

sponge - I 'll take a look on smooch.

I will need your email though - if you are happy to put it on here then fine otherwise cat me.

Bucking the trend I don't mind short men 5'6' - 5'8 and actually don't like tall men (over 6' is a def no no for me).

ASBM will recall the date with the giant I had (about a year ago) - he was 6'4 and I literally trotted round behind him - 5 4 in heels.

Ex bf is very short indeed but we sort of fit well together IYKWIM

I am on the verge of involving work in Mr Yorke situation. Or at least letting them know - my boss and security manager. It's a bit embarassing though.

yes i spotted that thread juicy,he's hardly a catch is he?
scl i do remember him yes!!
he wasn't the one where you had the mr bean moment in your car was he?
or was that another man plonker?
the mr yorke situ isn't at all nice and iswym
about being a tad embarassing,but it's him with the problem not you and he should not be allowed to carry on harassing you and making you feel uncomfortable

Hi SCL - that sounds awful - have to say it's one reason I've always been careful about not getting involved with anyone I've had to work with. Nearly happened once but I backed off at the last minute and am really glad I did. The guy in question ended up with a woman from sales and their relationship and eventual messy break-up was the source of water-cooler gossip for months as well as being the cause of him being asked to leave the company.

Re height, it's not a deal-breaker but I do prefer a few inches difference at least - I'm 5' 5" so as long as they are at least 5' 7" I'm happy. I once went out with a guy who was 6' 6" and had a cricked neck for about two years - mind you I learned to walk bloody fast!

6ft6

scl - wise to tell work. you shouldn't be embarassed. him that should be.

hey just think of the killer heels you could wear juice

yep just emailed my line managers and the security manager.

Let's see what they say.

sadly much as I love them, I can't do killer heels - I have no head for heights and just end up wobbling gracelessly before plunging to the floor - and that's before I've even had a drink! So if you know any short-arsed intelligent, vaguely-attractive men who can string a sentence together, don't use text speak, don't take part in re-enactments, wear rubber/dresses/dog collars or are seriously weird - let me know!

I mean are NOT seriously weird

oh i dunno i like a little bit of weird

yep but there's weird and there's WEIRD - I'm talking about the please get off the internet you're frightening me sort of weird

maybe your profile needs to be more specific about what you dont want?

or maybe there's something in your profile appeals to the nutter

you dont have any weird outfits on haha... halloween costume thats a bit . lol.

mind you... i have some odd pics on my profile. never seems to attract any fetish nuts.

Be my guest and take a look - any constructive comments gratefully received www.okcupid.com/profile/mzdemeanour

i'd take out the bit about not wanting a toyboys... yes it puts off 20 year olds.. but also anyone who's in 30's as technically they would be toyboy too.

and i'd change the word fierce in your title... its too... em.. fierce/scarey.

this tagline is the very first impression you get.

its gotta be attention grabbing in the right way.

friendly, flirtatious and fierce can be misinterpreted as

"will flirt outragiously with your mates then bite head of you when you complain you dont like it"

i prefer your line "considerate, confident and willing to try new adventures." (ok, i tweeked it a little)

and in the looking for section you have put that your looking for an activity partner... activity partner in dating sites translates to fuck buddy/weird hobby buddy. and short -term dating.. means fuck buddy again.

stick to just long-term and perhaps firends if you genuinely want a friend. but if you dont. then just lain old dating.

i love the rest of your profile by the way. you seem original and like you would be really interesting to meet.

Oh thanks Juicy - that's the sweetest thing anyone has said to me for a while ... not about being scary obviously - tho I think I can sometimes be a bit spiky ...

What about the pictures - am I losing the plot there as well - mind you not much I can do about that, facelifts/professional photos being out of the question

just realised there was more pics. i'd remove the one where you can see what looks like a bra. might juast be a top. but if i think your flashing your undies.. others will misjudge it too.

other than that you look lovely in the photo's. dont change them

Ta for the comments - funnily enough Lou liked the one in the white shirt - I just looked and realised you can see a bit of bra but does it look too much of a cleavage shot? Maybe I can crop it coz I like the pic - especially considering I've got no make up on.

yeah. crop it in your photoshop. good idea

didnt even notice a bra here, but tis better than having none underneath

I cannot do the no-bra thing unless I fancy playing keepie-up with my own bazoomas

to some of us that is a far fetched desire we can only dream of