Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

[lou33]

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

lol @ scl
colour sounds lush
he sounds a right arse and i'd be well pissed off to be left waiting for a response ffs does he think you have nothing better to do with your free time..grr..i'm getting well narked on your behalf here..
but hey lady you still have it so i would say yes get back on the sites tonight with your vino in hand and the x factor
you never know who you might find or at worst you can have a good giggle..just beware webcams..
on a plus note you'll all be glad to hear that i'm having a v therapeutic time here clearing out xh's stuff rubbish

Hi asbm, how nice you're keeping an eye of me! I am in LIKE, big time! Date 6 tonight with NM, going to his for the first time, he's cooking. It's going so well, he is just the most lovely man ever and I get to sit on his lap when I'm tired and there aren't any seats (he's in a wheelchair).

We haven't spent the night together yet but I think tonight might be the night...I just went out and bought myself the perfect LBD from Monsoon, a new nightie and a pair of lacy pull-ups. A woman on a mission. And he's already asked me to go to Dubai with him in January and guess what, I said yes!
I must stop waiting for the bomb to drop though, after all the useless fuckers (sorry that's the second time I've said that on here today) I've been with I can't help but expect the worst. Hope everyone has a great time tonight, whether staying in or going out.

yay!
i'm always keen to hear what you've been upto sparky aft.that muppet you were messed about with a while back
you sound so happy atm and that's great and dare i say it what you're feeling is perfectly normal
i had this with bf and so did rj(who as you know is even more sceptical than me lol.)
and we've been together almost 5 months now
so enjoy and go with the flow
and yes we've all heard words before but it's def actions which will make you relax and know he's for real
enjoy your evening and update tomorrow please

Just texted him and told him we are on a break. Is first time I dumped anyone I think! (apart from just non contact coward stuff)
feel sick but a bit buzzing
gonna turn it off now in case he tries persuasion am v easily persuaded
hence doing it by text which is also quite cowardly but a notch braver for me

ohhh..
got your email am pondering a reply but i think what you've told me pretty much sums it all up
hope you've got your vino ready for tonight and give yourself time here...it's v.much about what you want

What wrong with webcams? Just been having a web chat with my cyber toyboy, well I've nothing better to do this afternoon, need an excuse not to do the housework.

eve you can't have forgotten scl's now infamous experience of them lol
yours sounds just fine tho and yes any excuse to escape the housework..!!

yes, I know it's about me and my family
I need to come first with someone (not first above dc, obv, but more than just being convenient)
I think the last straw was his idea that dinner with 4 dc would be a treat - ever eaten out with a tired dd 4 ds 7 right after they've had a dad day? but hey, he wants to, he's now forgotten all about the child free lunch we'd agreed, so I'm supposed to be over the moon and my dc are supposed to flip over from seeing their dad to being out playing happy families with him and his dc, one of whom is invariable hostile and rude
actually didn't realise a dinner invitation could make me so cross!

sparky thats great, have a lovely time

ninah, well done for making a decision

thanks lou

i am running a bath ready for my evening away

I used to quite like going out for a meal playing happy families when DD was little. Usually ended in tears though.

What happened with SCL and the web cam? Remind me.

5 months asbm? That's lovely, will go with the flow like you said.

Sounds good Sparky. Have your DC's grown up. Also have you been to Dubai before?

tee hee - early on in my cyber dating history went on webcam with guy who had loverly pic on his profile. Imagine my shock (captured on webcam for him to see) when he looked nothing like his profile pic a real munter tbh!!

Didn't challenge him about it there and then but did later and demanded he took his profile pic off. He didn't of course.

My hair colour is quite lovely (esp for £2.39) even if I say so myself.

Samename is fast becoming history (unless he or his dm are seriously ill). I almost feel relieved about it tbh.

Oh yeah I remember that now.

So Ninah and SCL have both decided to have a break from the NM, these things often work out for the best.

how could we forget that one not to mention the various cock shots we've all had from various prats who think they're doing us a favour by waving their wanger at us

yes quite who knows what's around the corner!!

mind you...
and btw.scl and lou thought you would have posted on the xmas pressie ideas for horrible exh/p's
for some reason it sprung to mind when i found a load of his crap stuff this aft

I've never had any cock shots. Just messages from the most unattractive men in cyber space. 5ft 6 most of them and living 50 miles away, you just wouldn't reply would you? It's depressing to say the least.

ohhh so therapeutic to load the car boot and light a bonfire

you didn't miss much eve..think of the last turkey on the butcher's hook

i havent seen the thread, but i did overhear his thai gf giving him grief for being in the same space as me this afternoon (he is watching kids)

i did chuckle to myself

she better get used to him being involved with them again and quickly

and he better not lessen contact with them because of her

ohhh dear poor him eh??
hope you're nearly ready for the off there lou?

wow you guys have been busy this avo!!! better get up to speed with everyone's news.