Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

[lou33]

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

betty - that sounds good, will keep me fingers crossed for you.

Lou - how old is DS1 - (am wondering if 3.5 is too young for DS to learn have a nice time thou with LB.

mousie - did you have some nice childless time?

ooh what's happening with sparky then?

RJ is having a break btw for those who asked.

sin - any word from same name? how far down the line are you/ninah?

sorry to hear your news as well ninah.

these bloody dithering men seem to be all about at the minute - what is it with them?

anyhow got me choc for tonight, oh and web cams - I have one but don't use it too much, do have voice calls thou on MSN with the essex boy (I shall call him) the paranoid blokey from XP's bunch. seems nice enough but not datable thou. Have had a call & text from gymbooy today, text asked the score and said I'm guessing you've decided not to talk to me - SERIOUSLY MAN!!! I replied yes, I told u i'd speak to you after the w.e but do miss ya - weakness on my part I knwo but it's true thou do miss him & hearing his voice. ho hum.

asbm how are you? oh and cock shots seriously what's that all about?? honestly!!

belle you sound as if you've got your eve planned to a t..good stuff
i'm in really good spirits atm and no haven't partaken as yet lol..tho one in chilling as we speak
believe me it wasn't pretty.....think the man in question was confusing me with someone who actually gave a fuck was impressed with that kind of thing

;o did u send him an email back saying ' erm excuse me but in the first place I don't think you're all that, and in the second place if THAT is meant to impress me you're sadly mistaking!

actually this was some twat man i saw on/off for a while last year before i came to my senses
it ended shortly aft.this so called birthday shock surprise
iirc i think i just shook my head in disbelief and rejoined the dating site

lol. why do men think it will impress us?

am chuffed n grinning now, had a text back sayin 'course I miss u to!' - (I didn't ask if he did btw just said I did)

belle - heard nothing.

Have been seeing him since Easterbut not very often - once per two weeks.

Very strage as we had firm arrangement for tonite. However nothing really surprises me anymore.

well I know you said you were not fussed either way. tbh thou it's v poor form to just ignore and not give you any explanation.

just a quick one from me, will try and catch up with everyone in a bit, had a few texts this morning from guy i met(need to give him a name lol) but left it all day as it's his son's birthday and he just text to ask if i will be online later as he'll be putting son to bed in a bit awww!

yes belle I agree very bad manners and quite out of character really.

belle - you are too easily impressed I think - is it not make your mind up time?

lou - enjoy!!!

scl - it doesn't sound like it's doing that much for you, and he has been really, really rude this weekend. Even if there was something wrong, a text that says 'something terrible has happened, not around, sorry' takes no time, does it. I am hoping you find someone better - your situation with your boys and your ex is similar but different to mine, and I wish you could have something really happy happen for you.

ninah - you are very brave. It sounds so hard. I've never split up with anyone quite like that and I think I would be rubbish at it. I hope you are ok and use us to talk to and rant at as you feel the need.

Betty - sounds good
asbm - ditto and thank you for the lovely encouragement!

As for me - well, I have sorted the house and slept while my dd had a fabulous afternoon out with my friends. I am on the mend I think. Just have a mountain of things to catch up on but such is life. Can't wait to see NM tomorrow night and we have a whole weekend together next weekend which will be wonderful

thanks mousie. Exh has taken boys to a family party tonight to show them off to meet their extended family and they are staying in swanky hotel

Have just put myself back on the main dating site I was on before.

ladies, I have the shiraz

I have sauvignon blanc

and crisps
and a scary movie

scl are you visible on site? I was looking earlier but thinking maybe too soon - and the rates have gone up since I last looked

i have chardonnay and x factor, oh and chinese is on its way soon

which site ninah? the one I use is free

tell me please I'm happier on my own with my shiraz than with him and his boys in a a nasty eaterie celebrating the fact his latest 'wagon' has won a prize at a modelling show i kid you not

I'm a match girl, the one month option has gone up by £6
I was thinknig I'd try and get some cock shots for Xmas as I seem to be missing out here, but I'm not sure I'd pay THAT much

not impressed mousie (hard to do that believe it or not) but just easily pleased - simple things n all. but yes it is make your mind up time from my side. have majorly pulled back form him thou in many many ways.

glad you've got things sorted thou in the house, & are looking forward to seeing NM.

(i'm a match girl btw) and watching x factor.

still nothing from same name then?

ninah you're happiest with your kids and on your own instead of your DC feeling second best and you being defensive (if i'm not talking out of turn there forgive me if I am)

belle are you on one month two months or the 6 month bonanza?

OOh love what olly wears. Like a sharp dresser.

I am on smooch.

I'm routing for the Essex boys and girls. Love Stace too.

nothing from samename - think I was too much woman for him