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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

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lou33 · 30/09/2009 08:39

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

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witcheseve · 16/10/2009 19:32

Lou , enjoy it.

lou33 · 16/10/2009 19:41

oh eve i cant wait lol

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thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 19:48

lou, how do we find out if we've won or not? I can't remember which email my MN account is under.

ninah - I am, tbh he's not winding me up a bit, another text and a call in the space of 30 mins when I clearly said y'day i'll talk to you after the w.e do men not understand that - the call was first then text which had 2 kisses on the end instead of the usual one, am not going to reply, am not going to reply.

GBF (gay best friend who's not gay) says I need to stop seeing the potential in people which is why we keep ending up back in the same point in my life (ie this one!) saw the potential with him & ignored it is the prob thou.

agree thou it shouldn't be hard work, which is why i'm about 95% sure on walking away from this.

eve - sounds like a good w.e

sin - up to you if you talk to same name about it - better to talk things out thou then let it fester so you end up having a ruck and acting hastily.

i'm spending a special day with DS tomorrow & my folks as haven't really seen much of DS of late what with work so have felt like a really shite mum tbh, so we're gonna have a beach ice cream and lunch out day - oh and he wants to go to soft play as well. Also have to do some work so the reps get paid their commissions this 1/4 otherwise i'll get an ear bashing - was meant to have it done today but well that didn't happen lol.

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 16/10/2009 19:52

Why do they do that? Send loads of kisses after a text message/email?? How many is too many? I just don't get this.

lou33 · 16/10/2009 19:53

they will have sent you an email saying you have been selected to the address you are registered at

walk away from him belle, go on we are all willing you to

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thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 19:57

I know you all are lou, and the flags will be flying on this thread when I do lol.

dunno why they do it, usually it's just one big x unless he's after something (i'm sure) or trying to be nice (paranoid/insecure emotion! lol)

still haven't replied. phone is on silent.

lou33 · 16/10/2009 19:59

he is doing it cos he wants attention and to drag you into his own personal drama

its all about him

he needs to see a doctor about his delusions

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FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 16/10/2009 19:59

Mine sends 2/3. I don't get it though, I'm out of touch I think.

Don't reply, he needs to run after you big time if you want him to, take time to think about things.

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 20:00

lou, don't be mean he's actually a nice guy (quite ashamed I can still say that after his behaviour on weds) even my nan is now saying I should tell him to bugger off.

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 20:02

I am fluffy don't worry. and if he get the arse, or bored etc then I have my answer for sure. while I think things out about what it is I really want - well I know what I want- the fairytale (as per pretty woman of course!)- but that doesn't exist does it?

lou33 · 16/10/2009 20:03

oh blah is he a nice guy

he just knows how to make you think that

i get mainly one x at the end of a text from lb, sometimes more

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FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 16/10/2009 20:06

I'm still looking for mine, it was prince charming, now it's shrek!

What does the 'xxx' mean though? Naff all and it's all in my head??

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 20:08

I dunno cos it messes with my head as well. makes ya think they think you're proper special. or summat?

I know he does seem to know which buttons to press. (but he is nice really - just wish he'd learn to a) wash up and b) take his bins out when he goes out of a morning!)

lou33 · 16/10/2009 20:10

it means he really really wants you to suck his cock of course

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lou33 · 16/10/2009 20:10

belle i still havent taught myself to do that!

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ninah · 16/10/2009 20:11

text kissing a cheap quick way of making you go ahh, he's nice really, it's not his fault ...
cyncial emotion
how many seconds does it take to text an x
what summed it up for me belle was you saying a while back he called you 'while he was waiting for a takeaway'
he hasn't made a big effort to make you feel special, at least that's how it seems

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 16/10/2009 20:12

It's confusing. Mine's really domesticated, cooks/cleans etc. Not quite the 'friend' he thinks he is though, we talk nearly every day etc. The xxx are doing my head in though.

ninah · 16/10/2009 20:12

cross posted lol
yep, and that lou
sorry belle.

lou33 · 16/10/2009 20:14

i text a kiss at the end to people i know well, male or female, but not to everyone

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FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 16/10/2009 20:15

Three is OTT though. He's on his way back from his parents now so I'll have to wait and see what happens next.

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 20:17

damn I knew my expectations were too high. lol.

yes he did call while waiting for a take away - and all the way home as well about the weather- know it sounds sad btu i'm into it as well, not the whole fronts thing that's more him, but I love the whole storms and the moodiness etc of it. In his own little way he makes me feel special, but I need to decide if it's enough for me.

plus I also want to knwo would we still be having these discussions if I didn't have a DS - this for me is a key question i'm not sure I want to know an answer to.

(I don't usually put x's on the end of texts - bugs the hell out of XMIL as well! lol)

also keep dreaming that XH is going to go to afgan and not come back

ninah · 16/10/2009 20:17

what I meant was the extra kisses from gb at times like this
I sometimes text kisses and I guess it does depend how I'm feeling, if I'd just pssed someone off I doubt I'd be double kissing as it seems a bit facile
More likely to when things are going well

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 20:18

(he's not getting any of that action lou! )

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 16/10/2009 20:21

Should I ignore them? xx

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 20:22

I do, btu then I get gutted when (like weds) he didn't text me any at all right after we spoke on the phone and was chuffed again when he did after we went out - madness I tell u madness.

Men are another species I swear down!

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