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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part 12a

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lou33 · 30/09/2009 08:39

seeing as there has been discussion about using 13

(not that it bothers me)

i feel sorry for myself my back is still playing up, and i just tripped and made it hurt in the usual lower back place

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FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 15/10/2009 20:31

Hello

thesouthsbelle · 15/10/2009 20:35

not too much time hopefully.

hi fluffy.

lou - don't worry you're due some good luck/news.

FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 15/10/2009 20:36

How are you today belle? I did have a read and a catch up. Hope you are OK.

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lou33 · 15/10/2009 20:37

it would be nice

exh has asked me if he can do some laundry at mine

it's like having a huge galumphing teenager coming back from uni

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Haunty27 · 15/10/2009 20:41

Hi everyone

Lou, there's always a price to pay, but have a lovely time!

Belle, hope you're ok.

thesouthsbelle · 15/10/2009 20:41

least he asks lou, XH just cracks on and when he moaned about my toaster, I said to him 'lone parent' and that one works, his response was 'I give you £300 a month i'm sure you can afford a new toaster! )

fluffy - yeah will be fine. don't worry, just sorting out my weekends at the mo - this one is a family one with DS, and next week off to brum with best bud to vet her new GF.

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lou33 · 15/10/2009 20:47

he also said he can only give me 20 quid of what he owes me on saturday, but at least its something

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thesouthsbelle · 15/10/2009 21:42

and yet another text!!!! seriosuly. lol.

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lou33 · 15/10/2009 22:26

he is doing this because he knows he is losing control of the set up and wants to get it back to his way of doing things

basically he is making effort to charm you til its back to his way

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Haunty27 · 15/10/2009 23:33

Belle, I agree with Lou. It hasn't quite gone the way he would have wished. Please don't fall back into his arms. He needs to want you warts ds and all.

This man is not worthy of you.

Sorry [maternal emoticon again]

Try again, there are others out there for you.

Just read this thread. You don't have to settle for this shit crap.

You sound like a sweet lovely young lady. You need a sweet young man who is going to love you back for what you are.

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 07:43

it's stopping at home so we shall see what happens today - lets see if he can respect my decision.

passmyglassplease · 16/10/2009 08:06

morning all,

belle, I agree with everyone on here, the best thing now is to sit tight and wait and see.

you never know he may realise what he is losing and step up to the plate, accepting your dc and your situation!

However if he doesn't, he is not worth wasting any more time on.

Make sure you have a good weekend planned to take your mind of him.

thesouthsbelle · 16/10/2009 08:15

who knows, do have a fab w.e planned thanks. well day parts not so much with the night bits. but ho hum not to worry.

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lou33 · 16/10/2009 10:49

so what plans does every one have for this weekend?

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sincitylover · 16/10/2009 11:12

samename is meant to be coming over for a 'sleepover' tomorrow night we arranged this last week but he has been a bit out of touch this week so I am not sure.

Whatever really!! I am getting a bit pissed off with the line that he is so stressed out by work and doesn't feel like talking. He doesn't have the monopoly on a shit life/stress. I am always close to dumping him tbh and think he needs to know this.

Really looking forward to the weekend either way as this week has been difficult for all sorts of reasons.

witcheseve · 16/10/2009 13:48

Not much planned for me. Need to start decorating DD's bedroom but she hasn't decided on a colour yet so a lazy one ahead.

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lou33 · 16/10/2009 14:44

i will be staying in tonight and going off tomorrow evening

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lou33 · 16/10/2009 14:52

woohoo i got picked to try that sensual massager!

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Haunty27 · 16/10/2009 15:55

Hi everyone like my hat?

sincitylover · 16/10/2009 16:18

ooh you lucky thing.

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lou33 · 16/10/2009 16:54

i cant wait, shame it wont be here for tomorrow

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lou33 · 16/10/2009 18:18

lb just called, i told him about my prize, funnily enough he is quite pleased as well

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ninah · 16/10/2009 18:40

just passing! belle sorry gb has been messing with your head, hope you stay firm, you sound v strong over this, you need someone who's going to make you happy not stressed.

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lou33 · 16/10/2009 19:09

agreed

a relationship should not be hard work, especially at the start

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FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite · 16/10/2009 19:29

Hi Hope everyone's OK.

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