Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

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why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

well, I finally got through the day, still have loads to do, like run up the school for a meeting and meet some friends for dinner, but I feel like a huge weight has been lifted of my shoulders.

We are still together , he has apologised profusely and agrees that we should spend more time together, sods law tho I am completely booked up for this weekend! I have managed to fit him in on Sunday night.

i cant believe you remember that lol

itm glad it went well

itm - glad it went well.

asbm - ethnicity... now there's an interesting experiment of investigation

cant say i have noticed a difference really with ethnicity either

itm glad it went well with you.

well apparently he's 'cleaning his car tonight' (can well believe it lol) keeps saying he's goin away tomorrow, but it's only a concert in brighton - not sure if they're stopping up?! apparently now it's his friend, her partner & one of their friends.

So we're on for thursday apparently, but i'll not hold my breath.

oh and size - lol. no not coy, as I say XH mahoosive!

XP was well not as big.

gymboy is well hmm....

I think if u can do oral without gagging then it's pretty small and well there's the answer....

(btw I don't use a ruler, I use my thumb to my little finger to measure )

Ahem! Is it Friday night reaches for wine?

This is a bit horrible. The worst I've ever come across was pencil-ish. Eeeeeeeeeeewwwww!

Snurk. Rescinds on the shock emoticon.

pmsl

belle - i have a massive mouth, every willy fits without gaging .

.... u know the one where i said it was huge..... i just got it in and managed oral.. but he had in past not been able to get it in mouths and ..ahem.. holes!! simply could open/part wide enough

.... i must have a large parting ability.

ach.. never given me any complaints

monty - lol @ pencil

belle - is this concert thing a double date? is the other friend female or male?

don't know didn't ask didn't want to pry. trying to remain calm here and doing the whole space thing.

at you with oral!!!

He said so i'll see you thurs, I was like yeah if u want to he was like yeah, I said well u know I don't like to assume, anything and he said i know don't blame you.

belle - did he actually say "dont blame you"

yup. he said I know don't blame you.

don't think he meant anything bad by it, just meant that he understands given what i've told him with XH. besides i'm the sort of person who always expects to be let down wetc or screwed over so that's why I don't assume that someone's going to do something.

i would p45 him belle, seriously

or... he knows damn fine well he's keeping you hanging on a string,... yet still he hasn't pulled his head out his arse and finished/committed.

well it's his move, tbh he's the one who's doing all the chasing in calls etc and contact. I v rarely call him & even less to text him first.

no it isnt his move its YOUR move, your choice

dont wait for him to tell you how its gonna be

I am so glad this came up.
I am crazy (as you all know) about NM in every way apart from this. The, um, girth is fine, it's the length that is, um, much less that usual. He is amazing in other ways, I am waiting to see if he knows how to use it. It's the other reason the first time was so bad (apart from me being frightened after past). I feel bad for even mentioning it as he is lovely.
My ex was short (as in, my height) and had small hands but was plenty big enough where it mattered.

sb - hope you get some peace about your decision
itm - hope you had good luck today

Now what have I started! I was just wondering if it was perhaps more common that men who use dating sites might not be as cock sure as the tossers ones I seem to attract in RL.

Mousie, if he's lovely in other ways then it might not bother me especially if he knows what to do with it. The ones I was referring to were very small and it would put me off. Come to think of it they were smaller in height than most if the other men I've been out with. Don't think this is the rule though.

ITM, glad you are back on track.

Belle, hope you are OK, see how he is on Thursday.

mousie .. at it coming up

eve wouldn't say that so much.

ffs his teams just bloody scored again 6-1 - no doubt i'll have some comment! lol.

anyhow....

am going to see what happens on thurs & indeed over the weekend, but am carrying on my life as I would like normal - ie if/when he comes over on thurs (which i'm not expecting, and that will be that tbh) then i'll be studying before hand and getting my head down. knackers to him!

(have drunk copious amounts of malibu thou lol)

oh and re the height thing XH is 6'3, and as I say v big XP, deejay & gymboy are all about 5'9ish. XP was the largest out of the 3 - deejay/gymboy are about the same really.

How long have you girls all waited then before getting physical?

pass

ok.. are we talking since this thread?

since when ever! lol.

bit thought i'd have heard but havn't - so do we think phoen shold go off? (as I say have been drinking malibu - which by the way isn't good when you're trying to study about radians! )

Hi there ladies, I was wondering if I could join in here and come for somegeneral dating advice. I thought this would be the best place to come?

Anyway, I have been single for nearly a year, but got back with my exp a few months ago for about a month. Before that I had a short fling with a guy I met.

But now I am completely single and not getting any action. I have been for nearly 3months...

So I have come here for advice. The thing is I do not want a boyfriend that takes up all my time as I am busy with my young dc. I would like a casual relationship but without the feeling of it just being sex. I suppose like dating but without feeling pressured into moving things on. But I dont know how to get that really.

I have rcently started going out quite abit, and when I am out I meet people that are interested in me.

I gave one guy my number recently, he called me that night when I got home, and said he would call me the next day. But he didn't. I had his number so could of called him or txted him. But I have always thought if a guy like you he will call you. And if he doesn't he is not worth bothering with.

Wellnow I am thinking I should have called him. As its not like I want a boyfriend just some fun really.

Anyway, just wondering if anyone else is in a similar situation and looking for advice really....

i think since you cant type phone or should properly it should go off

dont ask me about holding off, i do what i feel like, which can be hrs or days.. never more than a week as i'm a weakling... oh except superman.. that was 3 month. but only cause he was in another country.

waiting - you DO like dating and the good bits.

your after a relationship.... but a very very slow burner.

they are out there.

a casual thing will end up a fuck buddy type thing... unless thats what your after... but i get impression from your post your after someone who will go on nights out and do dinner and some of the decent relationship bits without getting too heavy??