Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

[lou33]

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why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

well.... we've both been blatently truthful about everything. neither of us pretend to be angels. and i described BB as someone i had been seeing, who went away, and came back and it had never been ended as such before he went away.

fingers crossed for what btw??

Congrats Juicy, You're right to be about the female mates. If he cannot be honest about the gender from the start I wouldn't trust either. Got burnt once.

Lou if you are reading I have text, still waiting for a reply. lol

it works out.

thank you

and yes eve... he says he wasn't lying as such..

Juicy - a big congrats on the job, great stuff.

rofl at mums and sisters turning up at the door!

oh and sb - i'm going to be a debt collector

thanks monty. hows things with your dating?

ooooh thought you wanted to have a nice career in account! lol.

I'm a firm believer if it's meant to be then it will work out.

hey monty.

well... its still in that line of business

got to do my accounts for everyone on my books.

and yes.. if its to be it should be effortless at the beginning for sure.

hmm... you know what i'm gonna be saying next.... lol. I've had a conservative upbringing - 2 pratices and 2 in industry in 8 years (XH's job moves)

yeah should be easy you're right - think I make it harder by over thinking! lol.

i'm actually really looking forward to going and yacking with people while telling them to pay up

i can be very persuasive.... and grew up in a rough area...all the credentials required for this job....

i think my tall broad body frame may also have something to do with me getting the job

i was once security in a casino... ..... used to do the barring/entry and lock up..... probably helped me get this job.

RJ - ex is still back in life. We are supposed to be moving in together (me and dcs to his) but I can't find the time to sort it.

Hey SB and everyone.

RJ - I'm for Irish too! Fellow countryman you know! That's for Irish not envy lol.

oooh monty - i heart al things irish at the mo .. ..

so whens move in... didn't realise you were so far along the relationship path

ohh rj lol you're a one..we need proper catch up
belle think you misunderstood my post,but no probs,asbm still smiling here
right must go check dinner lol

monty and our lovely ninah will reply i promise
oi and er hem monty why are you on MN and not on the sofa with al and a takeaway/few drinkies??!!

asbm - similar could be said with you and your actionman?

RJ - good taste lol.

ASBM - I am on the sofa with drinkies and have had my take away too lol.

Al just gone to bed, he's working tomorrow.

That's 3 of us working in accounts so far, however I'm in the third sector so credit control is minimal. Thank god.

Flirting with my date for tomorrow like mad. Well you have to give them hope!

yep i was v. v. sceptical and not surprising aft.all those muppets men i've dated
and yep i thought yeah, yeah and the rest etc..
BUT
he's proved himself to be a good un and i'm a v.lucky girl!
what really swung it for me was seeing him in a social context with his family and friends who obv.dote on him..then he met the dcs..and..he's brilliant with them and they like having him around
all my side have pos.vibes and are pleased for me
BUT
lol
i still look for faults,it's 2nd nature aft.what we've been thru and prob.more so as we're mums and don't want our dcs to suffer another failed relationship
BUT
have turned a huge corner lately and am letting my guard down,still have scary mos but not as much
irish sounds good and you sound happy so take things at your own pace and see where it goes

monty phew!was worried for a mo
eve what are you like?!and best of luck for tomorrow!
right def off now,mine will be here in a few
nn all x

ASBM -

ASBM

i do love an irish accent myself

i seem to be a bit pissed on half a bottle of wine ffs, i am putting it down to the fact i havent been well

surprisingly i managed to hide it pretty well from lb, who called unexpectedly for a 20 min chat just now (apologising for not replying to my text cos he had his headphones on mixing some stuff for tomorrow)

no idea how based on how i feel now lol

morning all.

lou - are you seeing LB today?