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Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

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lou33 · 07/09/2009 17:38

starts here

why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

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LouLovesAeroplaneJelly · 18/09/2009 10:37

Hi ASBM, I had been laying off the dating thing as nothing was happening. Have joined my local kayak club and am secretly in love with my coach but thats about it

sincitylover · 18/09/2009 10:45

Lou have good time.

Samename sent me a photo from his hol.

Had a few glasses of wine at home last night and started talking with dcs about getting a dog (something small). Hmmm not even sure if our landlord will allow it.

Have a good weekend everyone else.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 10:52

are you still on pof and match?
whatever happ.to bsh?
god he was a one wasn't he lol

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 10:53

hi scl
are you missing samename?

Original poster
lou33 · 18/09/2009 11:06

thank you everyone

he just told me he is finishing work about an hour earlier now, so will be here sooner, which means i have to dash about and get sorted and pretty much be almost ready for when i pick boys up from school

happy days

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sincitylover · 18/09/2009 11:17

sort of - we sometimes go two weeks without seeing each other so in some ways it's no different.

LouLovesAeroplaneJelly · 18/09/2009 11:20

Never heard back from BSH which was probably a good thing. Most likely to be a wife beater in the end!
Not really doing anything on POF but am still on Match.

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 18/09/2009 11:42

llaj - cor BSH was a real crackerjack wasn't he. i agree you should ask to make it a double date with one of your friends or do it another night.

scl - aw bless at you missing him. what was his photo of.

lou - have fun

mousie - have fun too.

south - you seeing gymboy much this wkd.

asbm - i think natural selection is occuring.

por beachbum has run out of credit in his holiday sim

whats everyone else got planned for wkd.

sincitylover · 18/09/2009 12:08

it was a potrait - texted him back telling him he looked well 'ard. He can look a bit tough sometimes. (Xcept he's not!).

Going for lunch with workhubby today though.

I hope no-one flames me but I actually quite like having the attentions of three men (not all at once though) - is that so wrong?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 12:25

RJ you sound so like scl there lol
i remember that she used this theory alot at one point in the infancy of this thread
scl you've been seeing him a while now when are you giving him bf status?
hoping everyone has a fab weekend,can't wait to hear back from eve{nosey cow emoticon}
seeing mine tomorrow night,haven't seen him all week so am more than a bit excited

notaslut · 18/09/2009 15:08

hi
quick question for you all....

Ive been in contact with 2 guys from pof, both have my numbers, one texts about once every 4 days or so, and we had arranged a date for tonight.... ( have been busy for a few weeks
the other texts, maybe every 3 days, asks me how my day went, giong on about how much he is looking fwd to meeting me... last heard from him wed, when he sent me an email... again, ending with how much he was looking fwd to sat.

Now, ive not heard from either of them. First guy, i was meant to be seeing tonight.. tbh, even if he texts me now, there is no way i am going to meet him.... ( or am i out of order??)

second guy... when should i expect him to contact me? im not going to text him, i figure he said he was taking me out, and we agreed a date, but no time or venue.... i thinking if ihe doesnt contact me by first thing tomorrow then i wont go....

or do you think they have both decided they dont want to go? tbh , im kind of not fussed as ive had a busy week and fancy lying on the sofa eating malteasers! LOL

sincitylover · 18/09/2009 15:16

If you are not bothered then just wait and see if they txt you.

Sorry if I'm being offensive but not so keen on your nickname. Am sure there is something which would describe you better.

ASBM - what was my theory? - it's so long ago I have forgotten what it was.

sincitylover · 18/09/2009 15:17

I have found that most men can be quite laid back - bet you get texts from them a bit later thinking it's all on to meet up

notaslut · 18/09/2009 15:58

lol - just had text from guy 1 !

your not being offensive, its a namechange from another thread, forgot to change it back again...

sincitylover · 18/09/2009 16:04

Ha am also psychic

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 18/09/2009 16:22

slut - good luck on your date. what are you going to wear and where are you going... and no problem with you contacting 2nd guy.. something simple like "where are we going tomorrow".. let him know its still on and that gives him something to respond to.

asbm - phew, 1 whole week.. you must be v excited

scl - lol at "well ard"......

asbm - in what way did i sound like scl ... broken finger syndrome??... he ran out of credit other day and topped up after few hrs. warned me if it happened again he wouldn't top up again as leaves tomorrow.

i'm off tonight for a girlie patrick swayze marathon of dvd watching.

and is it sad i'm already excited about seeing irish again tomorrow.... he's talking me out in his area.. which i think is a good sign.. smallish place. so guaranteed to see some of his friends.. he's obviously not one for hiding me away.... well.... that will happen after the drinks if i'm lucky .

but.... remember the guy with the gums i went on a date with. he works in one of the bigger pubs in this place... and irish says we will be going there... hmmm... how do i explain that i know the manager in a place i've never been out to before??? should i tell the truth?.. or say he's a friend. technically he is. he still sends the odd "hiya" message.should i forewarn mr gums?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 16:26

scl it was to do with natural selection
what have you got planned for the weekend btw?
notaslut if i didnt hear by tonight and that means he hasn't got in touch with you then i would assume date off and tuck into your maltesers,neck some vino and watch the x factor

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 16:29

RJ don't fret he'll see those gums and he'll understand

sincitylover · 18/09/2009 16:30

ah yes they weed themselves out one way or another.

Not much planned for the weekend - my weekends are really taken up with football for the boys now - think I might be free tomorrow evening prob watch X factor and an early night. Need to pick DS2 very early from his dads.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 16:35

without wishing to put a downer on how are things going with exh and his OH?
i'm still pinching myself here as i've just had a civilised phone convo with mine

DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 18/09/2009 16:42

civilised asbm ex

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 16:47

yep i've just picked myself off the floor too
but maybe his meeting with my new bloke finally made the penny drop lol

aseriouslyblondemoment · 18/09/2009 16:48

the look on exh's face was a picture{gratification emoticon}

notaslut · 18/09/2009 17:12

lol- just heard from 2nd guy too

notevenamousie · 18/09/2009 19:05

Definitely name change back!
Am looking forward to tonight, been like a smiley child all day! DD is just in bed, here's hoping she sleeps

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