Where have all the fit and interesting men gone part TWELVE

[lou33]

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why would you bin off gymboy before asking about it?

he may well just have been checking mail or hiding a profile or something, talk to him before you dump him

moring all, i had a lovely sleep last night

how is everyone?

ninah - is this a definate decision you have come to... or another to and fro moment?

Morning is it? I am shattered and want to go back to bed. Got sunbathing to do instead.

lol @ sunbathing
how was your evening?

i slept like a log straight away

Didn't get to bed until 4 but I stopped drinking at 12 so feel OK just tired. The sun hasn't come round in my garden yet so I'm going for a lie down.

i have decided i like my new dress too much to wait for a reason to wear it, so i am doing so today, over a pair of skinny jeans

have been sunbathing too! is lovely
done nothing all day
well apart from usual dc stuff
is neither a decision or a moment rj, the market is down is all - the shine has gone off it, you know that feeling? I'm not going to bin him or anything, just see less of him
he suits me fine atm, I don't feel the urge to seek out anyone else
I am enjoying being single actually
If I start to feel he is upset about it I will have to do something then, but reality is with dc work house life is pretty full for both of us
so where were you last night eve? (taking back every word of the stay on the thread just to talk about clothes convo )

i only left the house to drop dd1's friend home and to buy pants and socks for the younger 3

i will have to go out again to take dd1 back to her friends house as she is going to a party with her and staying there overnight, but then i plan to do nothing at all

way hey eve
describe him to us all please
{nosey emoticon}
nothing new with me still all coupled up
still have my guard up and looking for red flags but can't find anything
can't quite get my head round it tbh
surely i'm not actually with a good un for once?!

looks like it - want to try on the crown?

must reply to your email btw
and RJ will have catch up on msn

hi everyone. Spent last night chasing ds1 and his mates who were meant to get themselves to fotball training while we were at a candle party!!

Missed the party but then drink copious amounts of wine to make up for it. Then up this morning for more football training,

Seems I missed an eventful night on here Nuff said

Samename still on holiday.

Saw exbf the other night

no worries, I've been a bit caught up in rl too recently, jobwise rather than manwise tho
glad all is going so well
just give me plenty of time to buy a fascinator
I just love that word - so bogus!
got to take ds out to fly a plane (toy one)

hmm watch this space....
scl glad you're still with us too
hmm the exbf factor??
saw T1WGA the other day or rather he saw me
and no am not even going there before anyone asks as i have moved on and am more than happy with the man i'm with
but..the intensity of his gaze really shocked me and i felt quite disturbed about it

on a nice note, a friend i havent been in touch with for a few months has got back in touch

he went totally awol

turned out he had some major issues to be dealing with, and his estranged father died , so he has been a bit all over the place

but its been good to hear from him again

that's good to hear lou
what have you got planned for tonight?
tis the dcs,the x factor and some vino for me
woo bloody hoo eh?!

asbm - I am so pleased you are happy. I hope he is as good as you daren't believe.
ninah - sounds like life is good, even if you are not too sure about bf - but being happy in your own skin is so vital, you sound really positive
scl - sorry to hear things are still not great with your ex, and sounds like things are confusing re exbf
eve - hope you had fun!!
southsbelle, monty and rj - thank you for advice re: heels - it is warm here today so going for option (c) of nice sandals (and plasters in handbag!) - glad things ok w gymboy sb and rj have you heard any more from beachbum while he's away?

I am nervous - and excited too! Not going to drink too much, just going to have a nice time. Keep thinking of the 'next' dilemma for if it goes well - honestly, I just want what I can't have half the time! Bet men don't put themselves through half these hoops that I/we do!

dd1 is off to a party, i am staying in

mousie enjoy yourself tis fab evening for a trip to a beer garden me thinks!

yes have a good time everyone who is out

yep all those who are out have a good one,

i'm in studing deep joy, have just had a row with XH as he's being a twat - again. well he's saying he'll 'be here when he gets here' either fri or sat, and won't accept that i'm not a part of him/the army any more so don't have to put up with it. arghhh!!!! ffs. anyhow consequnetly have just snapped at gymboy he had a better offer as not over tonight n he snapped back yeah my bed! still ended up talking for ages after n laughing, & he basically said it was cos he wants to leave me to study - i'm looking for an excuse not to really I know this and admitted as such! annoyed with myself now for snapping, still roll on tomorrow for a big snog! (quite missed kissing him this week lol)

lol @ big snog

what!! after 6 days i'm in need of locking lips with something other than DS or the dog! poor boy's not gonna know what's hit him hehehe.

I had such a lovely time - he seems like a really nice man, we had lots to talk about, and lots of kissing too
DEfinitely want to see him again, felt the best I have felt for ages. Thank you for all the hand holding and encouragement!

aww bless lol
glad you had a lovely time!!