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where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 6)

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sincitylover · 21/03/2009 12:20

thrilled to be kicking off part 6 on a sinful note lol

Blaming the vino for texting samename1 and asking him out - he text right back suggesting early this afternoon but don't think I can make it as am waiting for my brother who is coming down to help me swap washing machines and is always late bless him!

Then had a rather raunchy chat with young guy who have been in touch with for ages - trying to think of a nickname for him - very good looking - lives in your neck of the woods Lou. Think we might meet up soon.

At least resisted the urge to text exbf.

OP posts:
Janos · 23/03/2009 10:02

Cool - I take it it's ok to add the address to my contacts list

DS currently jumping all over me pretending to be a baby dinosuar.

Janos · 23/03/2009 10:06

Hiya ridingjoker

Have added MSN address, wouldn't let me do it without sending an invite though which is new.

DS is demanding I send a happy face so here you go

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/03/2009 10:16

Janos that's my email ad actually
sorry having a penname mo here
will give you my MSN if you email me lol
thought that you were referring to Harry fuckwit Potter

Janos · 23/03/2009 10:19

Ok I will email - nae bother

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/03/2009 10:59

ooh will have a look

Janos · 23/03/2009 13:22

Sent you a nice detailed reply. As you will see from my specs, I'm a fussy mare!

Just realised I forgot to mention that I'm based in Edinburgh.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/03/2009 13:32

lol
will have a rummage for you later and mail any finds your way
then you can decide if you want to join the site

Janos · 23/03/2009 13:33

Thank you! I shall look forward to receiving your email

aseriouslyblondemoment · 23/03/2009 13:35

ooh mail me your postcode too please
or msn it,i am about but set to busy as trying to get on with things here

Remotew · 23/03/2009 16:13

Hi all, had a great mothers day yesterday. Went for a very posh lunch and stopped off at the pub on the way home, then carried on at my sisters house, resulting in my BIL carrying me home. . Not bragging as I'm feeling a little disgusted with myself today. It was fun though. Thank goodness it was my day off today.

I've had a message on POF from someone who looks nice. He's 49!! not much older than me though but he lives quite a distance away. Have replied so we shall see. Nice to finally get a message that I want to reply to.

lou33 · 23/03/2009 16:19

thesp messaged me today to see if he had upset me yesterday

he tried telling me what i could and couldnt discuss with him and i didnt like it

what is it with men and alcohol that turns them into stupid little nobbers?

ridingjoker · 23/03/2009 16:26

janos i'm near you. bathgate pof is good in our area. frd is horrendously bad up here.

ridingjoker · 23/03/2009 16:27

lou - agree about nobbers

Remotew · 23/03/2009 16:28

Lou, you haven't met him yet and he's wanting to control the conversation . What does he have a problem talking about?

Janos · 23/03/2009 17:06

Telling you what you can and you can't talk about - who does he think he is? I wouldn't like that.

Hiya ridingjoker

lou33 · 23/03/2009 17:10

he asked me about my dispute with my friend, so i told him then he got stupid so i told him if he didnt want to know then dont ask, and if he does ask then dont tell me what kind of reply he wants

really , i dont know if i can be bothered with it all

i have a headache so not the best time to be deciding anything

ridingjoker · 23/03/2009 17:24

how did he know you had a dispute with your friend? is this the one who left you the messages about not knowing if he wanted to be with you or not?

Janos · 23/03/2009 17:32

Sounds headache inducing lou.

I think MSN can be the source of many misunderstandings cos it's so difficult to tell someone's tone and you don't have verbal/ physical cues etc.

I was chatting to someone on MSN earlier and he was very nice but he just kept going on...and on...and on....

lou33 · 23/03/2009 17:41

lol rj no not him, though it has made me realise my life must seem bloody complicated to you guys when i put it all down

he knew because the other day he was messaging me just after it happened, so then he asked how i was and i said fine after going to talk to my friend and getting some things off my chest, and briefly explained

he apologised this afternoon for being off and said he had a bit to drink

i should reply in a similar vein to him shouldnt i about what he should and shouldnt talk about

lou33 · 23/03/2009 17:42

janos this was via text to my phone not msn , he doesnt have msn

Janos · 23/03/2009 18:02

Ah right sorry lou.

My most recent XP (not DS' Dad) used to send the most foul texts when drunk. Full of horrible ramblings. I showed them to him and he was mortified..not enough to stop him doing it again though.

kdk · 23/03/2009 18:30

Evening all, how's Monday been? Not been contributing much as too busy with assignment deadline but thought I would share one with you. Now, I hadn't messaged the guy - and tbh wouldn't bother because he isn't my type but received this in my inbox (smooch btw - I should know better)

"Its a shame I am a phillandering cad who seems to enjoy all the morally wrong things that you have probably rightly banned so I shall say good bye.

Its always best not to mess on ones doorstep. Equally you dont look the type to tolerate me either.

I wish I were a nice guy I really do as you look lovely but deserve much better than I. Im still on a mission to have non meaningful relationships as I am afraid I will be robbed of my assetts again so its too costly to get involved and trust a lady ever again.

So I shall keep the remnants of assets I have left, build upon them and bid you adieu"

Yes because I really am after your assests you plonker .... that, and a message from a 24-year-old making a sexual suggestion is all the action I've had lately .... hoping you all are doing better!

Holly23 · 23/03/2009 18:34

Hi everyone, hope you all had a nice Mother's Day. Just an update on me and fittie, decided to call it quits, he was completely genuine about what he wanted and it was just getting to complicated so its finished. Feel quite disappointed but better to find out now I suppose! oh well back to pof and frd I suppose!

Janos · 23/03/2009 18:37

Hi Holly23 and kdk

What kind of tosser refers to himself as a 'philandering cad?'And he can't spell either.

Some people do really have an over-inflated sense of their own self importance don't they!

Holly23 · 23/03/2009 18:38

lol stupid error in my last post, meant to say "fittie wasn't completely genuine!

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