where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 6)

[sincitylover]

thrilled to be kicking off part 6 on a sinful note lol

Blaming the vino for texting samename1 and asking him out - he text right back suggesting early this afternoon but don't think I can make it as am waiting for my brother who is coming down to help me swap washing machines and is always late bless him!

Then had a rather raunchy chat with young guy who have been in touch with for ages - trying to think of a nickname for him - very good looking - lives in your neck of the woods Lou. Think we might meet up soon.

At least resisted the urge to text exbf.

Sorry to hear that Holly. It can leave you feeling deflated, I know. I'm exchanging messages atm with someone who seems nice. I feel very half hearted about it though.

Oh I don't know I'm feeling quite disappointed but not surprised by fittie. tbh I think he profile pic was quite old and he described himself as athletic although imo he's let himself go a bit - you know beer belly and all that, he should really describe his build as "a few extra pounds" rather then athletic on pof!

Janos - Doesn't surprise me that he can't spell, a lot of them can't. Have you replied or will you just block/ignore him?

RJ - sent you an email.

AboutEve- Yes it does get like that doesn't it. I have seen another guy I like but not sure whether to contact him though. Since Part 1 of this thread started we've all experienced so much of this dating website malarkey haven't we? and we've all been disappointed. So dare I ask "Where the bloody hell are all the fit and interesting men?"

The one I'm chatting to is about 2 hours away. It didn't work out with someone one mile away so don't hold out much hope.

I said a couple of days ago that it would be nice to hear of some successes on this thread. Ninah is still going strong after 6 months but the rest of us aren't having much luck yet.

sorry to hear your news Holly - even if you know they're not right/completely wrong, it's still somehow depressing.

TBH, I feel like packing it in at the mo as think the answer to where are the etc etc is on another planet - or is it just that the ones on dating sites should be?

Even the ones who seem okay turn out be t*ssers. For instance, I was chatting to a guy the other night on PoF who seemed okay, wanted my number etc BUT when I said not to phone that night because I was a) about to get kids ready for bed and b) was going out myself (for 1st time in ages tho didn't tell him that), he made it obvious that all he'd wanted was some dirty chat!

I think I will just block or ignore.

He was very nice and enjoyed chatting but he seemed a bit too keen, IYSWIM. Going on about how beautiful I was and talking about how he wants to raise a family.

Errmmm....

I don't mean there's anything wrong with that, per se...just not with someone I have only just start chatting to.

KDK - thats awful!

Janos - that sounds a bit too keen! tread with caution!

kdk. What an arse.

I will be treading with caution!

Chats = ok

Discussing life plan with someone you;ve been talking to for 10 mins = not ok

i may have success story with superman. will have to wait till june to find out. altho i am considering going to see him first. specially while dc are really driving me potty.

holly replied to email.

thesp was texting me earlier before he got on a plane back from scotland

not been on pof

Just been chatting to a network engineer on MSN. Very keen and a bit forward..seems nice tho.

I suspect they are when they want something from you tho

Have been chatting to an engineer as well Janos!

He was on FRD, I think he may have been the only man so far who hasn't been forward!

Maybe its because he didn't fancy me! lol

No, this chap sounds like a right adrenaline junkie, I dont think I could keep up with him!

After getting a message from a 57-year-old I have given up at least for tonight! Am consoling myself by eating bar of chocolate ...

Was thinking - maybe what we need is the human equivalent of swap shop? I mean we must all have a spare unwanted man around - I for one have a 47-year-old brother that I could pass on to a good home - am open to offers/swaps/suggestions .... I'd offer my xh but doubt v much anyone would want him.

Kdk your brother is the same age as me! Don't tell me he dates younger women. I've been getting a couple of nice messages of a guy tonight, he sounds fit, interesting and intelligent and also around my age. Will reply tomorrow when I have more time.

Shattered tonight so need to sleep soon.

This one who I've been chatting to is a fitness freak. Very proud of his six pack.

He showed me!

Inthemists, was he in Glasgow..?

I think he has a (very old and out of date) profile on FRD. I will have a look and maybe post it here ....

mind you I don't think he has a six-pack nice or otherwise ... but he is very nice

blimey busy tonight!
must have proper read thru tomorrow
off to bed nite all x

no janos he was in maidenhead,

kdk we need to see a photo/profile of your bro, just cos!

asbm, have we scared of adad123?

ooh just had last peek!
no inthemist not at all was chatting to him on msn earlier along with Janos
Janos RJ is right FRD is truly pants in your area but have mailed on a few

morning all!
lol at kdk
no i wouldn't offer anyone my exh either
well nothing to report as such here
have had another short arse contact me
am seriously wondering whether i should just add a note to my profile with
NO SHORT ARSES!
but it's prob.rude isn't it but this fella was shorter than me
oh jeeze{shaking head emoticon}

woke up to a couple of message from the thesp, he had sent when i was asleep

he apologised last night for the way he was the other evening, asked if we were still cool

i said i dont like being told what i can and cant talk about, and what was it with men and alcohol?