where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

Elm thought you'd like that

but miiiiiiles away.

but surely absence (abstinence) makes the heart grow finder!

fonder not finder

perhaps. time will tell if it grows fonder....or bored and horny

hey having lots of fun in the underwear threads!!!!

I really must get a life and get off mumsnet!!!

aww liking diver too
and yes i dont like all the ex talk
and yes this woman obv.was a bit of a nutter but would be curious to see what she would say about him
Holly is about we had a brief text convo earlier
Eve?
well probably out with her new bit of stuff i would imagine

inthemist its the new going out
well it is for me 'the stuck in the house single mum of many'

absm, how many lovely children do you have?

3 but feels like twice as many!

stop saying you like him... it'll jinx it!!

nah it wont
and you have backup too now!
tho a touch greedy id say RJ

greedy is good, its about time us ladies got our own back!!!!

tell you what will send some of mine your way then lol

greedy...moi?, just testing some more waters. not heard from marvelman for couple of days. shall text and wish him good luck on his motorbike practical tomorrow. if he replies i'll gather date is still on

but this is where it gets confusing. been texting diver all day too. if they are both texting my guilt kicks in.

er remind me what you said earlier about texting?
wasnt it along the lines of if date wasnt on would let you know etc...!

at asbm

something funny with my screen plus this thread is very long asbm just worked out something may be rekindling with old flame - the long distance one, or another? someone you liked a lot and felt you had let go? do hope so

Hi everyone, I've just spent the last 20 mins catching up on the thread from this afternoon! gosh a lots been discussed.
Lou33 absolutely love the hair, you look like some super sexy vixen librarian!
I'm getting my hair done tomorrow (and no its not because I'm seeing fittie on saturday, this appts been in my diary for the last few wks) also enrolling in a gym tomorrow, need to get into shape and doing a race for life run in Birmingham this summer!
Not sure about the discussing exes thing, I am curious as to why fittie split from his wife but is your advice not to ask? also what if he asks about mine, theres so much that happened but obviously I dont want to go into anything, its too stressful for one thing! so how much do I tell him?

just think chatting about exs gives negative vibe, esp early on. Better to enjoy each other's company and focus on the present

Inthemist, agree it would be great if we could all meet up but obviously theres logistics and childcare to consider, shame really. What fun we could have with the guys we'd bump into!

Yes will take that on board Ninah, I do just want to enjoy the date tbh.

evening ninah!
yes the other one

bloody ell RJs texting them both now
hehe if she mixes up their names lol
no seriously didnt mean that!

asbm - yes, i've text to ask about his bike thing and award thing, keeping it light hearted....left it to him to say anything about tomorrow.

and he has..wants to arrange time... but he's suggested we can go out... or just stay in for a chinese as he's got work at 11pm

have told him i'm not brave enough to come to his.

this has put me off slightly...very odd to ask to stay in at his on first date.(sat doesn't count as was very short first meeting)

he replied we would go out and he was just looking for motivation to tidy up