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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 17:46

Elm thought you'd like that

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Holly23 · 27/02/2009 21:48

btw who's actually on dates tonight? RidingJoker is isn't she? and Lou's seeing her mf? what about the others?

supervixen · 27/02/2009 21:49

Holly no hes about 1.5 hours away, i call him yorkshire tea :D

Holly23 · 27/02/2009 21:49

asbm - you've gone quiet, everything ok?

Holly23 · 27/02/2009 21:52

oh yes I remember now. Will you go and visit him?

supervixen · 27/02/2009 21:58

yeah i want to just got to rely on the ex having dd for a few days heh!

supervixen · 27/02/2009 21:59

on which site did you met fitman?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 22:02

Hi Holly
im fine just been pottering about and have emailed you back too
SV ROFL
naughty lol.

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Holly23 · 27/02/2009 22:03

pof, I'm also on frd but had more contact from guys on pof.

Holly23 · 27/02/2009 22:06

Thanks asbm, seems quiet tonight but its Friday and guess people are out having!

Holly23 · 27/02/2009 22:09

...fun! (sorry)

Holly23 · 27/02/2009 22:09

well thats me done for tonight, catch you all later.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 22:10

yes i guess so
expecting updates later no doubt!
just looked on relationships and stayinthelight has another nutter onher case
have posted and told her to jump on here as its a lucky thread

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 22:11

nite Holly
hope you get a good nights rest!x

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supervixen · 27/02/2009 22:17

night holly

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 22:19

SV will you travel up to meet him?

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supervixen · 27/02/2009 22:24

yeah i think so, its not that far really. and it will be fun!

are you out this weekend asbm?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 22:36

mmm.obviously!
no i'm having a quiet weekend in as exh has the children
could have gone out but need some RnR
have had a really tiring time of it of late
what are you up to
am presuming you have dd
does your ex know that you're dating again?
and has he moved on?

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supervixen · 27/02/2009 22:49

ah bliss, weekend without children!!
im out tomorrow for a friend birthday, dont have her tomorrow night!

dds dad is fine with it, we split up when she was 1 he is now engaged! my ex b/f doesnt know im dating again, i just want him out my life though so dont really want any contact with him, although i have bumped into him a few times, urgh not on purpose! its annoying, having your past so close by!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 22:55

my exbf is far away tho scarily looked me up within 2hrs of my rejoining site last month
i had even name changed etc hadnt inc.pic but he had the audacity to send me a wink!
i was amused at first then annoyed
sent him a message
he read and responded
and immediately suspended his profile
so thats a result!
my exh lives not too far away
whats the prob with exbf then?

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supervixen · 27/02/2009 23:02

lol what a strange one!! men are funny things.

exbf had hygiene issues which i discovered when he moved in - ick, he was basically an immature brat who needed to grow up, he wasnt good for my self esteem either, i was kind of bullied into him moving in and it was a disaster i hated every minute of it.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 23:07

im curious but wont push you on it..!
how long did that last
was your dd affected by it all?
does nm have children too?

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sincitylover · 27/02/2009 23:15

hello back again for a bit. The reason I know when anyone turns phone on is that I have delivery reports on my texts.

Background story to this is to do with exbf. So i send a txt and delivery report tells me if it has been delivered to their phone.

So I know that a text I sent this morning has not been delivered til tonite. Its actually quite a pain in the arse but did have its uses.

exbf is in touch tonite - samename 2 nada - is it me ?

supervixen · 27/02/2009 23:15

was with exbf for about 2 years, moved in 2 months and that was the end of that! he had the most disgusting habits i dont know if i should mention them, it might make people ill! before he moved in it was on and off a lot and casual ish.

dd liked him at first then he moved in and bam, she hated him.and him being an immature brat made it worse, he thought he could argue with a 4 year old and win, it was like having 2 children. i could go on forever about how crap and gross he was. it finally came to a head when he started leaving her to cry while i went to work, and he used to wind her up so much i had had enough, something finally clicked and i new i could do better. i feel awful for putting dd through it, but she is fine now and it was like xmas when i said he was moving out, ive rambled too much!!

nm has no kids but wants them ;)

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 23:17

evening!
are you having a vino or two like me SCL?
what has exbf had to say
i swear that man is pschycic!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/02/2009 23:19

SV will start new pt4 thread now
as we wont be able to post any more on this one!

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