where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

Elm thought you'd like that

holly - if you really must know about exes.... play the question game if convo dries up.

i,e ask me a question? and if he asks you about your exes then feel free to ask about his.

but tbh it's best left till it is naturally brought into conversation.at a later date.

oh, yippee! you really did like him didn't you! great, I'm so pleased. Keep us posted
Holly there is plenty of time to discuss all that stuff later on if you feel the need, though it p'raps won't be important at all. Having said that my nm blurted out the first time I spoke to him that his wife had left h him etc, I was quite put off by it tbh but he never mentioned again, recently I had a few drinks and asked him a bit more, he was mortified he'd said that. Talking about it just seemed a bit depressing. I've never told him anything about my ex. Not relevant, imo.
Have a lovely time tomorrow, won't you!
logging off now x

hmm i wouldnt go to a man's house on a 1st date
but he might not actually be wanting to jump you
oh asbm stop being so naive lol.

ninah will do we are meeting soon but havent arranged specific time
would have loved to have seen him this weekend but sadly cant
will let you know when i'm clearer
and keep on posting on here always great to hear from you x

agree with RJ
you will just know anyway Holly
and the convo will flow!
you have no probs there with him he's lush in every sense

i know he's very interested in me that way.

do you know when they do that thing and stand so close to you there isn't any daylight between you...he was doing that

he would jump me...thats for sure.not sure if i could resist. he was sexy enough i kissed him when he did it in a pub full of people

oh but his text are boring and non stop drivel about scouts and crap.

diver actually has me laughin out loud at his.

Thanks guys.
RJ - Yeah agree with others on house visit, besides kind of feel a bloke should make an effort and take a lady out if he's genuinely interested in her. Anyway think you've guessed by now I'm rooting for diver but understand you concerns regarding distance, but he just sounds so perfect!

ooh sounds frankly sizzzling lol
real chem there then?!
is there the same chem with diver bar the fact that hes a bloody good laugh?

diver comes from where some of my relatives live. he's saying a whole load of terms i haven't heard from ages.

talking about winchin, i haven't heard that since my aunty used to ask me at a barn dance if "i'd winched any lads yet"

he sounds ace
i do love a man with a wicked sense of humour

diver is hot.but in a more relaxed manner. like he either doesn't know.. or doesn't care. but i was so bloody nervous that was scared to even touch him. lol. but when diver kissed me there was real chemistry.and it wasn't even a full on kiss.

with marvelman there was chemistry when standing together..but for the kiss... not so much as diver as i was drunk , and he was going for the kill iykwim.i was more shocked at being pounced on(even though i knew it was coming)

ooh hot and not knowing it!
even better!

Sorry guys but feeling shattered so signing off now x

nite Holly x

night holly.

asbm - any word from your ex? can we have a nickname pls?

not today no
and can only be asbm's ex or tbc i guess lol
it was a big step for him to get in touch again
and cant expect daily contact at this stage
tho the text/phone chem still there

HOLLY (sorry for shouting) I know you have gone for the night. I got your email, havent had chance to look at the attachments yet. Are the other two addresses ASBM and Ridingjoker? I know Lou's and Inthe midst's and if so I can drop them an email and exchange pics, if they don't mind.

Hope everyone is OK and hello to any new joiners. I've been really busy and tired working and the date last night knackered me out. .

ok. he can be the ex. since there's no other ex's than this one. which is "the one that got away" .

think i may go to bed soon.

where has N1 gone??

eve - mines is the one with 006 on it?? is it there. if so.. go for it and i'll rake out an old photo as have no recent ones on computer.

RJ, thanks yes got that one so will do over the weekend. There are 2 more now I look. Think I can work out ASBM, the other one has 79 in it. Anyone claim it?

y know what? I have been out for a lovely evening with some colleagues. Get home and samename2c is online. Not talking to me.

really can't be doing with it!! Perhaps he is serial predator.

I would really like to txt him and ask wtf is going on but of course I won't . hate all this I really do

RJ he is the one that got away..
and if you have my email then mail me i will reply and you too Eve!
imagine that N1 will be around prob.busy
So Eve spill....!

SCL, did you IM him?

see thats why i dislike msn and the likes.

if you didn't have msn you wouldn't be able to see him online and wouldn't be bothered. but now your peeved as you think he's ignoring you??

are you online and not contacting him??or do you appear offline??why dont you contact him..perhaps he's waiting on you??

or he is just a serial predator and on the hunt to see what he can find online?? hope not.

SCL glad you had nice evening
hmmm..but then youre online too!
is there anyway you can go onsite but not be shown as online as with msn?

He made me a lovely meal. Saw his flat so I know a bit more about him, not all good lol, but he is a guy after all.

I was wondering should I persue it or not but found myself thinking about him all day so thats the sign I need to just go with the flow. Seeing him again tomorrow night, hopefully. Will go for a drink then back to mine. DD is out most of the night!