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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone pt.2

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 19:58

Elmo he sounds as tho he could be quite civilised
are you going to say yes?

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elmoandella · 15/02/2009 17:39

most definately not going to allow them to see anyone i start seeing until i am 100% sure my kids could deal with it.

asbm - how old are your dc?

inthemistsoftime · 15/02/2009 17:44

somehow managed to miss the bit about your date elm, but am glad it went well.

elmoandella · 15/02/2009 17:54

thanks - so whats happening tomorrow night?? have you heard from him yet?

sincitylover · 15/02/2009 17:57

Hi just on briefly as kids have been hogging pcs today.

And have also been tidying/cleaning house and DS2 bedroom and dealing with fallout from their vist to exH. Major probs might start another thread but almost too yawn inducing. It's all coming to a head DS does not want

Do I have most options ASBM - it doesn't feel like it to me? ATM just samename 2 is still in touch.

Saw exbf last night that was so nice. I just feel like he gets me! It may not be exactly what I want but I am not going to do anything rash for the moment.

Elmo sounds good with the diver. As you say might be just want you want.

Lou what happened with your sofa is it assembled?

ASBM anyone on the horizon?

sincitylover · 15/02/2009 17:58

sorry meant to say DS2 does not want to go there and asked to be picked up early this morning. Mainly because of exhs bible belt parenting (IMO). Hes such a miserable old git.

lou33 · 15/02/2009 18:24

it's mine who is away, back tomorrow, coming to see me on tuesday

i put the sofa together yesterday, and am currently borrwing my girls laptop so i can sit an mn from it (inbetween making a roast dinner)

am looking forward it seeing this young man again but i will remain slightly cautious until i feel i have reason not to be

though i must get new bateries for my razor

elmoandella · 15/02/2009 18:46

lol lou. i know what you mean i had to shave my legs for the first time in weeks. not because i had any intention of getting them out today. but it always helps to make you feel good on a date if everythings in "order"

elmoandella · 15/02/2009 18:47

SCL - my ds is going through similar thing with his dad. i started another thread on it. i am at a bit of a loss to it.

lou33 · 15/02/2009 18:50

he is staying the night so i pretty much guaranteed to be seeing my legs

sincitylover · 15/02/2009 19:09

I think I posted on it elmo. Get the razor out lou

elmoandella · 15/02/2009 19:11

not just legs then if staying over

aseriouslyblondemoment · 15/02/2009 19:15

oh he's been at it again has he SCL?
the lovely exh!
i've gone beyond using the mental energy on mine
funnily enough tho he did call/text me a few times whilst out on my date last w/e
maybe that's why cheeky chops was scared off
tho he has a scary exw by all accounts
you will manage to meet up with samename2 at some point
the main thing is that he's keeping in touch with you
Elmo mine are 10/7/5
it's the eldest who is trickiest and is very anti me having a BF unless it's David Tennant lol!
Lou and her legs bless!
btw SCL yes there may be hope for me yet!

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lou33 · 15/02/2009 19:27

yes a full on defuzzing will ensue tomorrow

we do have 3 weeks to make up for after all

HOLLY23 · 15/02/2009 20:31

I know you mean about relationships. I don't want anything serious atm, and just want to fit it around my DCs. Mines were with their dad last night and came back today. DD said her dad was drunk last night and asked her why I didn't want to be with him anymore! Stupid git!
Anyway not wasting anymore head space thinking about ex, so tell me ASBM, what kinds of men do you like?
Elmo, really glad you had an enjoyable day. Did everything go ok with your DCs going to their dad's? How did DS cope today?

elmoandella · 15/02/2009 20:33

holly i posted on other thread he's an arse.

lou 3 weeks making up will be fun

asbm - mines are 2.11yo and 18month

aseriouslyblondemoment · 15/02/2009 20:34

why Holly do you have a possibility for me?
my fantasy man is Kelly Jones
what about this PisceanAlan then?

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Remotew · 15/02/2009 20:36

I enjoyed the film, got slightly bored but then I loved the ending, won't spoil it but the bit about maybe your happiness won't come in the form of the perfect person....better shut up for those who still want to see it.

The Drew Barrymore character will ring true with many of us as she is meeting people on line and that's are far as it goes. Never actually talking to them or doing the face to face.

I was thinking the same thing this afternoon. I'm getting bored with the cyber men and want to meet someone in the flesh. In anticipation of this I did a massive defuss and I haven't even got a date lined up but did it for me as I was getting lazy. Now I feel all smooth and raring to go.

Remotew · 15/02/2009 20:38

Glad it went well Elmo, I agree about not wanting the 24/7 relationship, wouldn't work for me, so a guy that was around some of time would work.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 15/02/2009 20:42

yes but if i like who i meet on-line i meet in RL
grrr Eve go girl!!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 15/02/2009 20:45

speaking of which where's my fav cyber man got to?

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HOLLY23 · 15/02/2009 20:49

ASBM - thought I'd get your comments first before I start looking.
Elmo - yes I do remember the other thread, have you posted latest on there then?
Inthemist - whats happening tomorrow night then? is your freind coming still?

Remotew · 15/02/2009 20:52

Who's your fav then?

Nice if you can arrange a meet up but mine all seem backwards in coming forwards or they live away and I'm not sure I can be bothered to go through all the arranging for someone I don't know if I even fancy.

Gawd I really have lost interest.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 15/02/2009 20:53

don't think he's on there sadly
but must be tall Holly thats a must
and nice eyes too do it for me
and a nice smile..maybe a bit of a cheeky one
usually go for dark haired men
but am considering a blond one at the moment

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 15/02/2009 20:56

Eve you're on the right thread tho
we've all had or about to have action on here
and as i say will always meet my cyber men if they interest me enough
and they always ask me too

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elmoandella · 15/02/2009 20:56

n1=blonde

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