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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone pt.2

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 19:58

Elmo he sounds as tho he could be quite civilised
are you going to say yes?

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HOLLY23 · 19/02/2009 15:35

I'm just impressed you can manage 4 different conversations at the same time! I'd be getting everything mixed up!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 15:42

inthemist sounding good.are they both off POF?
Elm tho i'm divorced my exh doesn't know about my private life nor will he at the mo
Holly yes we will do that and discuss our tactics
Kor might well be off limits for now or could be working away time will tell
the fittie sounds good tho
N1 you are obviously welcome but i dont think that either Holly or myself wish to divulge our trade secrets

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 15:46

Elm i know who they are!
CM1 i will meet very soon
CM2 has the blackberry
CM3 is a divorced dad who is msning me now
CM4 havent chatted to yet hes been messaging me but he at least sounds interesting

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elmoandella · 19/02/2009 15:47

i wish it was just a case of not telling. as soon as he gets wind i will be followed/hounded/harassed.

haven't told him where new house is. haven't told anyone except my friends i trust and family. or he would be here all hours demanding to see the kids. he's already declared wherever i move to will also be his house as "his" kids there.

hence he has no idea where i live. but in the past he's had private investigators follow me.so if he thinks there's nm he will be back at that. as i've to "Never have any other man in HIS dc life"

oh and btw he now lives with his ex wife but claims nothing is going on

do wish he would just fuck off and leave us alone.

elmoandella · 19/02/2009 15:49

cm1 =
cm2 = blackberry man
cm2 = divorcee man(that no good??)
cm4 =

come on lets get some decent names

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 16:06

Elm lol!
just logged onto FRD to see my mail and as usual the cast of the Addams Family are leering out at me
your ex sounds a right nutter
how scary is he?
ok names then..
CM1=? but he has a fascinating mind that really interests me
CM3=?
CM4=indie man he likes the same taste in music as me

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 16:12

ummm CM3=? still
maybe you can help me with names for CM1 and CM3?
so ok
CM2=Blackberry Man
CM4=Indie Man

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inthemistsoftime · 19/02/2009 16:34

I could be really cheeky and say CM1 = N1, but I wont, he he he

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 16:35

uh oh!
and just been messaged by another
CM5 tho i have serious suspicions about him
he logs in but you dont know when or if hes on line
so
CM5=married man

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 16:37

you could inthemist lol!
and cheeky is the name of the game really

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lou33 · 19/02/2009 17:05

elmo, young man is in holland til saturday, but wants me to go stay with him sat night

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 17:09

evening Lou
this all sounds good if you get the dcs sorted and you are happy with it
i am unable to get out this w/e as have my dcs
have plenty of offers tho
CM2 Blacberry Man
keeps on asking if he can come round
fortunately for me he doesnt know where i live
his texts are well pervey

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lou33 · 19/02/2009 17:14

dc's have been sorted

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 17:15

way hey!
no wonder you're grinning there girl

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lou33 · 19/02/2009 17:18

what can i say, i have good friends!

still dont know what time he is back tho, hopefully i can go when it is still light, dont like driving in the dark, especially in places i dont know

Remotew · 19/02/2009 17:25

Just dipping in to say hi. Going out tonight, for a change, with a friend who likes to treat me and DD now and again. Good to have mates like that.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 17:29

Eve thats nice hope you all enjoy
by the time you come back tonite no doubt this will have become pt3
Lou isn't wonderful to have good friends who can chip in and help and appreciate our need to have some sort of life beyond our dcs

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sincitylover · 19/02/2009 17:29

evening all, haven't been around much as yesterday was chaos!! DS2 refused to go to exHs so I let him stay with me one more night (he has gone there now for two nights). DS2 had to come on girly night with me last night (in my friends house) and tonight am going to stay with another friend (who has no kids) - we will be able to have proper convo without interruption (except from mobile phone). Haven't had a sleepover for ages!!!

Update on men in life

another date to meet samename2 on the horizon.

exbf not been in touch since I saw him at w/e but expecting some contact soon - have a tentative arrangement for tomorrow evening

Talked to someone online the other night (on dating site) not sure if he was talking to too many people at once but was ultra keen to meet (slow down there now) and when I said I wasn't free at w/e (with DCs) asked me what was I doing on site if I wasn't single. Eeh!! Told him in no uncertain terms I was single but haven't replied to his last email for a couple of days - unsure.

He did suggest nice idea for date though and is fairly local.

elmoandella · 19/02/2009 17:38

SCL - the one you were talking to that seems ultra keen seems like too much work if he's getting pissed off your not able to drop everything for him.

samename2 - fantastic for another date.

eve - have a good time

asbm - cm1 = intullectual man
cm3 = ??need more info for a name for him

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 17:40

SCL a girly nite sounds wonderful and with uninterrupted convo too oh blissful
see exh still causing probs
its so depressing isn't it especially when it involves the dcs well being
i wouldnt even talk to mine now if it wasn't for having dcs
i am dying for you to meet up with samename2
i am anticipating the start of something there
exbf well
the other guy yes keen = scary to me too.what was his date idea?
and yes some seem to think that you don't have anything better to do especially the childless types.

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elmoandella · 19/02/2009 17:42

even BC i would have struggled to fit a date in for the wkd coming. no chance of me dropping plans with friends for a guy. friends will always be there(good ones).there the ones who pick up the pieces and get you out on the lash when your relationship goes sour.

elmoandella · 19/02/2009 17:43

they're not there

aseriouslyblondemoment · 19/02/2009 17:43

Elm have just thought of name for CM3 top gun
he used to be in the RAF
tho is no Tom Cruise
but then i dont like height challenged,misogynistic weirdos who belong to strange sects

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elmoandella · 19/02/2009 17:43

top gun i love it!!

elmoandella · 19/02/2009 17:44

tom cruise freaks me out

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