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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 20:02

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

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sincitylover · 02/02/2009 15:30

elmoandella - sorry for your predicament didn't post because I didn't know what to advise but ASBM has good advice. Can he still run his businesses from Italy? but if they are Uk based doesn't he have to declare in UK so being a basis to calcuate everything and remaining in the UK jurisdiction) but I could be talking rubbish.

Had a chat with samename 1 earlier on MSN, he said the dating was not going well. Wwants to meet me. Told him to look at his diary and get back to me.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 15:42

all my men lol!
have only two interested from FRD!
see was right about banker!
and he is taking the whole day off work too you will have his full undivided attention
woo hoo lol!
at least its a nice distraction from everything else thats going on
just taken sneak peek at FRD neither have messaged me thank goodness
am feeling truly rotten about this pic business what an awful thing to have to say
id be gutted if i received a message like that
can imagine that Lou will hoot with laughter when she reads that and say
'ffs asbm tell him he's a fat minger'
another man who has been winking has had his profile suspended
obviously found out by the wife me thinks!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 15:46

SCL samename1?
what a nerve!!
has his harem deserted him?
tell him you don't do 2nds!

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inthemistsoftime · 02/02/2009 15:47

sorry to hear about your shit day elmoandella.

and I hope that Friday turns out well for you.

After having a sh*t weekend myself, today I am on the up.

was able to tell exp to go sort himself and stop being self pitying, it was him who left me!

told him to get of his arse and go and find somewhere to live so that he can share in the care of his children or I'll go for 100% custody, he has been dossing at friends houses (read sleeping with other women) for 5 months now and still hasn't got around to finding somewhere to live or getting a car instead of taking mine when he has the kids.

It was very very cathartic.

After my show down with ex I then tackled my emotionally unavailable man and told him that we were going to be just friends from now on, he took it well and we actually had a laugh!!! Its a shame he isn't available because I quite like him, but I am not hanging around for the possibilty that he may be in the future, he knows my phone number if he wants to contact me.

Anyway I am back on top, but without any male company, somehow I think I might be better off!

I have an appointment at the Solicitor on Thursday, anybody have any advice about what questions I should ask?

lou33 · 02/02/2009 15:47

well i just removed the chef from my fb and msn after working out he had a gf

Had cancelled meeting him twice and was due to meet on weds, tho i wasnt feeling like i wanted to

lou33 · 02/02/2009 15:48

have deleted his number too

inthemistsoftime · 02/02/2009 15:55

good for you lol

funny, I was talking to a chef yesterday on POF, he was French could it be the same man?

lou33 · 02/02/2009 15:56

this one is italian

what was his pof name

inthemistsoftime · 02/02/2009 15:59

can't remember but he lived in Stratford

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 16:08

inthemist
there's all the usual things really
maintainence,access,pension,medical cover,the house if it's in both names,any debts
once you sit down and discuss it all you will feel alot better
the solicitor will clarify alot of things and you will start feeling in control of the situation
obviously the more that you can both agree outside of the solicitors the better
i dont know whether he would be prepared to go down the mediation route
Lou he sounds like another prick
have you heard any more from Mr Overseas?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 16:09

which Stratford?
{asbm goes pale..}

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lou33 · 02/02/2009 16:14

mr overseas is on his way to india today, and i was out most of yesterday

i'd rather he was enjoying his holiday than lurking on msn tbh

which stratford?

inthemistsoftime · 02/02/2009 16:19

stratford london

lou33 · 02/02/2009 16:35

does his pof name begin with k?

inthemistsoftime · 02/02/2009 16:41

no he called nordi. seemed like a nice guy

lou33 · 02/02/2009 16:42

so did this one til i found out he wasnt being truthful

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 16:44

phew!
i sent him a quick message
but bottled telling him that i didnt actually fancy him

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sincitylover · 02/02/2009 17:04

no dont want to let him know I have been looking at him on facebook.

Might meet him - he's probably coming down off the sweetshop syndrome.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 17:37

he sounds like a deluded waste of your valuable free time tbh
what a tosser!
bet he thinks you'll be grateful for his attention

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elmoandella · 02/02/2009 17:37

sweetshop syndrome?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 17:57

think alot of men people suffer from sweetshop syndrome
the symptons?
will run thru a few
emotionally unavailable
saddo
mind game expert
serial shagger
liar
deluded
unable to get to grips with modern technology
penchant for single mothers
shall i go on?
t

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elmoandella · 02/02/2009 18:01

aaaaaah.... you mean an arsehole.

elmoandella · 02/02/2009 18:03

inthemist - is it your first appointment?? mines made me take ID for her. and if i was claiming for legal aid then bank statements also.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/02/2009 18:10

Elmo
er Helloooooo!!
yes!thats another sign too
for some reason forgot to add to the list
could go on and on but wont
you get the picture!
and have just been given the perfect excuse by my MN mate niceguy2
'you look too much like my ex!'

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elmoandella · 02/02/2009 18:12

oooooh thats a good reply

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