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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 20:02

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 20:21

what kind of boots?
i dont like them on a bloke lou
especially when its across his knuckles

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lou33 · 31/01/2009 20:24

knuckle tattoos are a nono

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 20:26

woo hoo banker is back.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 20:27

exactly!
especially when those fingers are also covered in those particularly nasty chunky signet rings

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 20:29

and???
bet he's been looking for you!
has he pinged you yet?

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N1 · 31/01/2009 20:35

I don't mind some tattoos on a woman, if in a relationship (or if the person and I are close friendly enough and it's acceptable and if she is single), I can trace my finger on the lines if the tattoo. Discreet tattoos seem to be more special, only the select few know about them.

I have no foot fetishes (that I know of).

Most boots that women can wear comfortably every day are the type of boots I like.

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 20:38

i think you may have a fettish and haven't come out the shoe closet yet.

and yes we're chatting. ping ping

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 20:44

well dont mind us then
im a timberland girl myself
thou do like to wear heels when i wish to scrub up well-excuse dating site speak
and discreet tatooes
well that lovely man of mine who i let slip out of my life had one of those,it was henna

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N1 · 31/01/2009 20:55

I saw a timberland outlet shop in Street Village. When I see £100 and up for a pair of shoes, I just turn and walk out.

The fetish (if you can call it that) is that I like skin. One of my ex's had stretch marks and I found them fascinating because I traced them (for my own pleasure). I used to say that each line had a story to tell. If she gave me enough time, I would work the stories out. We didn't last that long.

Boots with heels are not quiet my scene. I like lower heel boot. Blokes should not wear boots - it doesn't look right, unless he is dressing up to be a cowboy.

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 21:02

wow n1, skin fettish too!!

lou33 · 31/01/2009 21:04

i wear heels more often than not

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 21:05

had visions of Shirley Valentine then when she's on the boat with Costa
how did she feel about that N1?
and yes cowboy boots or built up heels
that's another nono!

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elmoandella · 31/01/2009 21:06

ahhh mamma mia, G&C and chatting to a single fella. ideal sat night. lol

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 21:06

elmo
well?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 21:08

good isn't it?
the new going out lol!

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elmoandella · 31/01/2009 21:15

still messegain

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 21:16

woo hoo!

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N1 · 31/01/2009 21:17

The girl liked the attention, till she discovered that I got enjoyment from tracing the lines, which (apparently) made her feel used.

I am not sure it's a "skin fetish too". I like hair, long hair. I can play with a person's hair for ages, but not very curly hair. I like straight hair.

It might be a good time to stress that I only touch people who i like. If I don't like them, there is no chance.

I don't know who Shirley Valentine is.

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 21:19

n1 - come stroke my hair. lol. i need less gin or to put away the keyboard. lol. my hair only does straight. one got a perm and 6 weeks later it was poker straight. no amount of curling devices make even a ripple in mine. lol

banker is trying to go watching a dvd but he keeps coming back. lol

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 21:27

shirley valentine is an eighties Brit film with Pauline Collins its hilarious and well worth a look
and like elmo i like having my hair played with
thou its bobbed now not long!
Elmo he sounds keen
that man is still on MSN
if he thinks that i'm pinging him then he's very much mistaken
and can tell you're on the gin lol!

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N1 · 31/01/2009 21:28

how long is your hair and what color?

N1 · 31/01/2009 21:32

never mind the color of your hair. As long as it's got length to play with, it's good.

Though, I am not to sure your children would be pleased is a strange man came to visit just to play with your hair, and what would the neighbors think?

N1 · 31/01/2009 21:33

If hair is long enough to be tied up, it's long enough to be played with.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 21:40

pardon N1?
Who are you talking to here?
or is it both of us?

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elmoandella · 31/01/2009 21:41

it used to be really really long. down to my ass long. but just now i get it chopped to houlder length. let it grow till mid way down back. then get it chopped again

and i have a tendancy to occasionally get it in reds/purples when i go for chop.

banker finally off. aparently we're meeting on monday. he's going to pretend he's meeting a client and escape for a quicky.... coffee..... get your mind out the gutter..(tisk , tisk)

mamma mia on full force. 2nd gin poured. bombay sapphire. lush.

this dvd makes me want to go out!!lol

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