Essbee - Honey ring me please about the 9th - DP may go up there to lpay golf but it may be too late for him but would love to drive you up and then we can have a nice chat!!
Do not agree to anything AH asks of you - speak to your solicitor and tell them that you want the works in the petition - the judge will look at him as more of a tosser when it comes to the final settlement and you coul get more - this in turn will give you and your DC security that you desperatley need - and why should he not have his dirty linen aired before the courts - he should have thought of what he did before he did it shouldn't he!!
And ring the CSA and cry - tell the you are broke and that he is working and you are not getting your full 20% and you and the kids are having to go without - he works for someone so it should be easy to get money directly from his compnay if needs be.
And next time he rings say that you are not discussing the divoerce or the children with him - weverything is to go through the solicitor - he will poop his pants - X2b did and funnily enough became much more reasonable!!
Oh why did he say he wanted the violence left off - you need this on there - think if he went for residency or tried to hurt you again - having it on record in your divorce would be of great advantage to you. And he knows that counter petitioning you is only going to cost him loads and will actually do not good in court!!
I am serious what I said about the statement if you ned it though and your first thread shuold be on here for you to print out and give to your solicitor as well as notes from your doctor and SS - so he can;t deny any of it the