I feel exactly the same way, Hate, some of the spelling and grammar (not to mention the text speak) leaves me grinding my teeth and growling 
I'm hoping the better weather will make me feel up for going out a bit more. If I just see some eye candy, I might feel inspired to start looking again!
TBS, I've confirmed - you were born exactly ten years after my brother! 
NMN, i've sent you a request.
I am not very good at contacting people, but when I have (on OKC), I haven't had replies. I haven't messaged people on POF yet, but I promise that i will, when i eventually reactivate my account!