Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 30)

[lilacisinlove]

Yay! I did it again!

elasta - have afab time :)

beautician, glad you slept. Still think thats appalling behaviour.....

Flame, well done on the maybe getting over carrot.

Sponge, grrrrr.

star- good luck for the move.

logged into pof this morning as id not been on for a few days, and budist has asked me out again. woohoo. He asked for dinner in the week but since babysitting will be a bit difficult ( trying to save it for the weekends) then could we do coffee on sat.
the texts from TB seem to have got a bit less. Am sensing maybe cold feet.

can I ask a question to the onlinedatingxpertteam?
chatting to guy, just the one, its kind of regular but we talk crap...very superficial staff...
what does it mean? is that normal? we cannot meet right away even if we wanted to cause we are very far for the moment, so this may explain slow pace and not getting too personal...still...he is not asking any personal questions

Hi
reading what you say being a man i would say he is just being sure of who he is chatting to why not, also so he may just want a person to chat too that's men at times we are not all like B.J good luck with it ..

Bum
budist can only do sunday afernoon.
Im meant to be seeing TB all day sunday.

TB cant do saturday.

What do i do?

Lot's of new posters goody, hi to everyone and place marking.

Haribo, at worst, you got back in the saddle, at best, he will contact you and you can have more of the same. Unfortunately, after sex, it's still the old fashioned, man should contact first, annoying but true. Even if he sex was brilliant, you can never tell what their agenda is at such an early stage and we've all experienced ones who do a disappearing act. So if yours does this then just say NEXT!

Took If it were me i would go for the guaranteed sex to be honest .So TB.He may not turn out to be your one but i'm sure you will have a pretty big smile for the rest of the week

Fucking arse.Im in Leicester on saturday for mates birthday.DG text saying can he drop my key and a few other bits at hotel.So i replied yes stick it in an envelope and ill let reception know.Then i got back 'Will do'.'Will i see you'.WTF i just put back NO.

I'm out on saturday,i'm single,i plan to get drunk and i have a hotel room with a lovely big bed

no train man again! he's either been off for a dirty extended weekend with Natalie Portman, or sitting next to me on Thursday has put the fear of god into him and he's now getting a later train. ahh well! :)

beautician. i think thats what im inclinded to go for. Plus TB has continually said he wants more than that ( altough may just be a ploy to get me to sleep with him)
Whereas budists profile says hes not looking for any committment or relationship.

I cant believe the cheek of DG. Seriously.

snape, natalie portman was maybe a bit busy this weekend... maybe he was too busy making himself look lovely and was late?? OR The over excitment from thursday gave him high blood pressure and the doctor advised him to take it easy for a few days?

:)

Took i know he's taking the piss now.But you know what the say best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.So thats my plans for the weekend sorted

Snape I agree with Took he must be ill.You have obviously got him all over excited.Flippin men can't be relied on for anything haha.

Took Budists profile would put me off to be honest.I don't understand going on a 'dating site' and yet not looking for a relationship?????
When i first started on the sites i tried to kid myself that i would be cool with someone that just wanted friends but i didnt want any friend i wanted a boyfriend.I think if they put no to relationship and or commitment then what they are really asking for is a fuck buddy.

well. it is kind of perplexing isnt it.
The one that says no committment, and profile says hes just looking for dates and to see where it goes, quite possibly implies very very casual dating. and acually, hes not even asked what i do for work or anything....

but TBS profile says very clearly he wants a relationship and he has said that lots and lots of times and made it very clear that is what he would like and maybe we could do this on a day out, or this on a night in... hes asked lots and lots of questions... but its also been rather x rated and sex when we meet is likely ( so really, all the other stuff could be a ruse?)

who knows. men!

And yes, he is really taking the piss... he wants to see you after hes just dumped you?? what planet is he from>

ach never thought i would have to wait for referencing to go through

it's gonna make it bit pushed for time isn't it? fingers crossed i think

and please can we all keep our figners crossed for lou's dog? thank you xx

thank you, it isnt looking good for her atm tbh

((((((((((lou and family)))))))))))

Oh lou, I've been keeping up on facebook, sending positive, healing vibes.

When do you need to be out of your present home by, Aurora?

Good attitude Beaut, anger is your friend right now!

Another vote for going to meet TB here too, took.

Hello to Newbies and everyone else

Ahhh Lou sorry have been caught up in my own little self indulging world.Sorry .Hope dog is ok fingers crossed for you.xxxx

place marking

((((((((((((( to lou and family))))))))))))))

sending a tiny little bit more love to dora

lou.. i dont know what, if anything has happened. but thinking of you.

elsta - how did last night go?

beautician - how you feeling today?

snape -did TM reappear?

well. texts from TB have dropped off rather a lot.
to about 4 yesterday. when er, the number of texts daily prior to that were ( hold on while i work it out) 250 ish

This may or may not mean sunday isnt happening now. But im not going to chase him, he may just have been busy, he did say he was spening time with his sister and neice. In any case im off into town to buy new underwear and a new top. Because ive not had new pants for AGES. ( you should see the state of some of my older ones..its more than embarassing)

if he cancells i shall just see budist sunday instead. then no more dating really while exhusband is away. Incidentally i was a bit cheeky last night and asked him if he would get me a few things from the country he is going too.. on the basis that he knows ive been after them for years.. ( hes been 3 times before and failed to bring the correct thing back. He laughed and said of course he would. Which is quite amazing. and shall be more amazing if he brings the right thing back.

took, one of my dogs had to have emergency surgery on sunday evening and may not make it, things are 50/50 right now

thanks everyone i will try and keep you updated

i tried to kid myself that i'm fine but even despite the way he ended it i still love him i can't stop crying its getting embarrassing.