Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 30)

[lilacisinlove]

Yay! I did it again!

i know.
rubbish.

talking via msn at work.
3 hours so far.

i hate him and love him in equal measure. i told him that.

ah well. least i held out for a while and it was a valient attempt at moving on.

took!

I really hope you're giving him a hard time. I really am. three and a half weeks of nothing and now He's sad. grrr on your behalf.

been there...

(lilac HBD for yesterday!)

er yep.
i did/am.

im not very good at holding back when it comes to him.
and he just says ' well, why didnt you say'

and then asks how it is any different to me dating people.
which of course it isnt.

and then he says ' well. you wont see me, what did you expect....'

argument isnt finished... but ive got do to some work today.....

adnd yes. happy birthday lilac!

and sorry for being a bit self absorbed.

Hi all

Took - I do sympathise. Maybe you'd be kind to him to let him go? He has a point about 'what did you expect' if you won't see him.
IIRC he's not what you want for dd?? I can't see an answer :(

I was out with Celtic again last night :)
I like him, rather a lot.

.... and I need a bucket of cold water poured over me

ASBM - rofl @

OMG -

This is so not me

Hormones??

Hey Monty, sounding good, wish I could feel the same for someone atm. Time to should NEXT for me, I think.

'shout'

Adamschic - Hi! :) What's happening with you?

Nothing much, dating someone atm but I want 'fireworks' and it aint happening. So [jealous] you are getting this from Celti, enjoy it though cos you have been patient.

Yay Monty!

for TooK

Mattarse vanished from FB. I text him all worried (not just unfriended, but vanished proper iyswim). Poor bloke. I know he is a big boy and can look after himself but he isn't and he can't.

I think ManA could be good for a laugh, but not sure I could ever trust a good salesman enough for something serious

monty - to be fair me disapearing on him was my attempt at letting him go. i would have never of contacted him again.

he text me.

I have no idea what the answer is, and of course, he is right... what did i expect. and hes not done anything wrong.

I asked why he couldnt just be happy with what hes got and he says its the same reason as i cant be. FGS i cant even commit to a date with someone. 99.9% of the time i say no. and the 0.01% ill pospone and pospone before eventually cancelling.

i dont know. what i do know is i wont be going any where near him while hes not totally single.

flame - hope hes ok.

adamschic - totally understand the fireworks thing.

Can I join you ladies?

I have been single for only 2 months and I am as um 'frustrated' as hell! I know no fit, interesting and availiable men.

Hello!!! Didn't know you were single. :(

I would say the frustrated gets easier... not too sure when. I managed 6 months and was climbing walls.

:( for the situation TooK. I know with me, I go on dates, I can even quite like them, but I know any of them so far I would drop at one nod from Carrot.

Oh and Matt is fine. Ex girlfriend issues so deleted fb for a bit, and just being generally flakey with text replies.

Yup single since end of Jan, (your on my facebook right?)

I hope the frustration gets easier, i'm climbing the bloody walls already. My ex's fugly mates keep trying it on and im getting disturbingly tempted!

flame- yep. i get you.
he said he knows ive dated people and asked if it changed the way i felt about him at all. I said that it didnt. I can quite happily see people, if only i find one i like....!! but i dont feel guilty, not really and it doesnt change how i feel and i know they dont compare one bit. but they are ok for killing a bit of time with. thats what happened last summer/autumn anyway. was not quite as sucessful early this year.
So, while i want to hate him i totally understand what he says as its the same for me.

See, Carrot is in total denial that he feels anything. His sister is a different matter . Wonder if I can convince mate to have her and me over for coffee at the same time....

I am coping by drooling reguarly over HYM (hot young man) on my Facebook, he is single and very fit, and cheeky, but sadly he is the local bike, he drinks to much and he goes for young, thin blondes. He is so very beautiful though.

evening all,

hope you have all had a good day.
@ monty!

took - it sounds really complicated. was during my missing period so dont know whats going on there.

flame - do you not suspect that his "ex girlfriend " issue is that they are trying again and she has asked him to delete. it would explain flakeyness of texts too if he's trying to avoid doing it when she will catch him.

i'm suspicious though. so i would assume that or is there a bunny boiler story to share?

asbm

hows everyone else? and who else is on facebook?

Lol no, long term bunny boiler issue. Seeing as he has previously been the bunny boiler though he has no sympathy from me . Absolutely nothing between us btw - am a text mate and occasional fb.

fb = fuckbuddy??? or do you mean occasionalY facebook(fb) him?

no, fuckbuddy. Facebook it is generally just the odd status if he posts when I am looking iyswim. I noticed him gone because his pic disappeared from phone where the two are linked up. Worried that he had hit a downward spiral (depressive) and decided he was sick of the world kind of thing. Checked with mutual friend that he was poofed rather than just mine, before sending worried texts. He's a v messed up boy, so the sick of the world option was quite possible.

ffs another night of being harrassed by ex's fugly mates. maybe I should just lower my standards, either than or join a 'no strings' dating site! Any reccomendations?