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Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 30)

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lilacisinlove · 27/02/2011 22:21

Yay! I did it again!

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lilacisinlove · 28/03/2011 10:54

Happy birthday flame :)

My turn tomorrow!

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FairyLightsForever · 28/03/2011 16:38

Happy birthday Flame, hope you've had a lovely day.

Flame · 28/03/2011 17:26

:o Thank you

Out in a bit with Psychomum5.

Was talking to mate today (Carrot's sister's ex SIL), and she said she met up with the sis on Fri and said "My friend is friends with your brother it turns out". She replied with "You know Flame?!" Apparently she knows all about me and he seems quite taken with me. WTF is wrong with the man!?!?! As far as I was aware no-one knew I existed.

ManA is back on the scene. Random, but quite nice tbh. I am assuming he saw my legs on fb Wink

NOmeansNO · 28/03/2011 18:44

hello all,

flame happy birthday. weird he's talking about you. intriguing

monty - so... are you inviting him for dinner to meet the brood?

asbm - you know me and drink. Grin

speaking of nights out - fairyLF - do you go to club noir? I'm a glasgow regular to it. only been in past year once because exp was too possessive didn't like it. but i'm currently on the hunt for my team america themed burlesque outfit for the MAY on.

oh and asbm - he's not found a place yet. looks likely I will be first to leave. he handed in his notice with me though. he had too. i paid the full deposit here and i want it back. he was expecting me to let him stay there and him keep it Shock

aurorastargazer · 28/03/2011 19:22

nmn i don't blame you at all for keeping the deposit - you paid for it = you keep it! (however much you pay; small amount or large amount!)

flame - definitely intriguing

Flame · 28/03/2011 19:38

Yes - it is your money no matter how much!!

The Carrot thing is indeed intriguing. It was the fact that she named me without my friend having said who I was. Bloody man. It is the keeping the xmas present tag all over again! He knows I love him to bits.

elastamum · 28/03/2011 20:41

Happy birthday Flame!!

Am feeling a bit depressed today. having stupid e mail row with ex about arrangements for christmas FFS! He said he didnt want kids for Xmas last year and wanted new year, he didnt want to be bothered to drive 2 hours each way to see them.

Now he wants the kids from 23rd to 30th this year and I have said no. I dont see why I should not see my kids for a week over xmas because he chose to move 2 hours away. He has a partner and I am on my own. I live miles from family / friends as he moved us just before he left. Does he really expect me the spend the whole of xmas alone without the kids!!!!

Also, no message from GW today Sad

NOmeansNO · 28/03/2011 20:42

flame - he may well really like you. but just doesn't want a relationship. i can think of men i really like, and still meet with, but just not relationship material as we would clash in the long term.

I bet quite a few ladies on here can think of at least one bloke who makes them dizzy at the knees. but they wouldn't want to settle with them for a variety of reasons. or the bloke didn't want to settle with them for another variety of reasons.

you will meet someone you fancy pants off and who wants a relationship with you.

NOmeansNO · 28/03/2011 20:48

elasta - thats pants! did he move you then move himself back?

Monty27 · 28/03/2011 20:51

Evening All

Flame - have a good evening :)

Elasta - you do right to tell exh where to go re xmas.

NMN - No way should you even consider that money is anyone's but yours. Oh and I am thinking of inviting Celtic to my den dinner (if he plays his cards right) - but not when the brood is here lol Wink

NOmeansNO · 28/03/2011 20:58

monty - ooooh "dinner" eh Wink

Snapespeare · 28/03/2011 21:33

happy birthday Flame!!

i drooled ridiculously. we were late and had to sit on the front row. there was a point at which he had to kneel at my feet and sweep up something.

I am ridiculousy horny. it has been around 20 months now. God help any random man that accidentally brushes against me, I am at the point of dry humping the leg of a piano stool, like a ill-trained poodle. wanking it's doing it... there is no element of surprise. Wink

No TM today and off work tomorrow - a day off. :)

Snapespeare · 28/03/2011 21:35

isn't* doing it... so horny I can't even type! Blush! i need to take up macrame or charitable works...

aseriouslyblondemoment · 28/03/2011 21:58

nmn what a cheeky twat he is!Angry
my poundland bag roll is growing as i post,as is monts!!
flf enjoy!Wink
and yy would be lovely to hear from janos againSmile

elastamum · 28/03/2011 22:12

Snape! Blush

NMN to answer your question, we all got relocated north whilst he was having an affair. then he left us in an area where I didnt know anyone. Then he moved south again to marry his GF. We are still up in the mids. he lives 2 hrs away. what a twat!

GW has just sent me his daily update Smile I really must calm down. After so much experience of being lied to and let down, if I dont hear back immediately I quite irrationally start expecting to be dumped. I'm pretty sure GW isnt like that, its just my self confidence that lets me down.

Flame · 28/03/2011 22:40

eep at 20 months!

argh @ ex elasta

NMN - he wants perfection and some sort of guarantee that it will work forever. I don't believe that exists (too hurt) and he knows it took me a long time to decide that I had fallen for him. The two combined is the issue. Although saying all that I was 100% sure I was done with babies, but I would have children with him. Not sitting round waiting for the impossible though. I am trying my luck in the hopes of finding someone I fall for harder.

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lilacisinlove · 29/03/2011 12:24

Happy birthday to me! Just had a HUGE fresh flower arrangement delivered at work from TLOML Grin Out for Chinese with him and DD2 tonight.

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adamschic · 29/03/2011 12:37

Happy Birthday Lilac.

elastamum · 29/03/2011 13:34

Happy birthday Lilac!! Smile

FairyLightsForever · 29/03/2011 14:42

Happy birthday Lilac, hope you have a lovely day.

I'm glad that you're feeling better about GW again, elasta.

ABSM are you on Facebook? Janos is on there, if not, I'll prod her and see if she'll come over here and say hello!

Flame, you do have fabulous legs!

Hope you're enjoying your day off, Snape, it's been 15 months for me, but I seem to have completely lost my sex drive Hmm... if found please return to Fairy at the fit and interesting thread Grin

NMN, i didn't know about Club Noir, this will be the first time I've been to anything like this before, so I have no idea if it's really 'my thing', but i do know that I feel damn sexy in my outfit! (Maybe my sex drive will come limping back if I spend more time as Fairy and less time as mummy!)

Flame · 29/03/2011 17:44

Happy Birthday!!!!

My legs are the one part of me that I have always been happy with tbh. The norks are good, but only when encased in a bra or corset, but the legs are happy naked Wink

tookoolforskool · 29/03/2011 20:57

Arse. Mr big has just text me.

Saying he's sad with out me.

One text... heart beating fast, pulse racing. I hate him.

What do.I do?

Flame · 29/03/2011 21:00

Argh!

Me? I cave.

You need NMN. She'd be tough.

Betty79 · 29/03/2011 21:00

took-ignore it, you've done so well to no message him so far......just keep reminding yourself he's meant to have a girlfriend....if i remember right anyway?

Happy Birthday Lilac!

Happy Birthday Flame! (sorry I'm a day late lol)

tookoolforskool · 29/03/2011 21:07

Suposably so. I kind of want to shout at him that I'm angry at him. And he.lied. and.he hurt me and he is a cock.
Shouting will.not achieve anything.. and I know he will just tell me what I want to hear.

And against my better judgement I will believe him.

Gggrrr.
Why doesn't he just leave me.alone?

I don't understand why he keeps coming back.

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