Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 25)

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Kicking this off.

Hi BeautnotMag, 3rd date sounding promising and can see you are keeping your options open.

Will have a nosy when I'm not at work. Flame will PM you re my username. My profile is rubbish, I know.

I'm at work atm. All this talk about HRT, child benefit has got me feeling like I should aim higher money wise/career wise. It's just so stress free it's boring, however, well paid jobs are hard to come by in my area. Don't want to bring this to this thread but it get's you thinking.

Not sure with LG see what happens from now on.

I'm on POF by the same usernam too eve, don't think I have a photo on there though. Planning to conduct an experiment (when I can be bothered) I have a photo of me with my hair straightened on OKC, so want to find a curly picture to go on PoF.

Oh I lied, same photo on POF as on OKC!

Exactly Flame is only back to the future.Now you are thinking too much.Sounds to me like he just wants to see you

me? overthinking? ? NEVER! Damn the fireworks.

Will do POF look later.

Hahahaha I got a text off DG earlier saying 'hey beautiful.Thanks for a good night.Hope you have a good day x'

I'm thinking hmm not as much as he usually writes is something up.See i'm terrible

Its so good to know that its not just me :o

I mean, how exactly does "Hey are you busy tonight can I pop round for a cup of tea about 7ish?" sound ominous??

(Like the straight vs curls test btw. I should do a profile with norks and one without :o)

Gah I wish i just didn't like him so much.These poor men wonder what they would think if they knew they were being analysed on here.My mum and friend are coming over for a wine night tonight so will be more analysing haha.

Just had a look at your mn profile.Goodness those are some outstanding norks
You are very pretty and i don't think you need to show the norks would be intersting though i wonder how different the messages would be.I fear i already know the answer to that

Hmm I think i know the answer too!
I'm I think you got my share of the nork quota FS!

i don't think anyone has ever called me pretty before :) You can see why i have chosen non nork photos though!

Trying to fill in "what is the first thing people notice about you" was hard as i know damn well what that is!!!

I am just paranoid. He's text to say his sister and kids are away so the house feels too empty and he fancied company. :)

I'm amazed that no one has called you pretty before.

at Carrot just wanting company- bless!

So am I Flamesparrow you are gorgeous.

Ahh but Carrot wants to spend that lonely time with you.I wish there were fireworks for you.

Flame, I think its lovely that Carrot wants to spend his alone time with you, says a lot imo :)

What do we think about someone saying 'ah bless him' re something related to DC? Is not a phrase I'm used to men using, though is something I would use myself.

Am overanalysing...I do this as well..for everything

Sponge Lots of my friends and DG have said 'ah bless him' when i tell them someting relating to one of the ds's.You are over analysing.I think so much i have given myself a headache today

Sponge, is this WM related?

gosh this thread is flying by!

i got out of my sickbed today and drove the papers to court myself, rather than relying on the post

they reckon xmas is pushing it, but maybe new year

fingers crossed he actually carries on with it now

Bnm, I sympathise, I have overthought to the point of headaches many a time. In fact I cant remember a time before I spent hours considering every single thing done or said by a man I liked! Blimey, how sad do I sound?!

and yes fairy, it is WM related, am surprised you even needed to ask

Lou - love that you drove the papers to court. Lets keep our fingers crossed for a good start to 2011!

i figured that was i knew they had got there in time and they would be checked over in case i had forgotten to tick anything

Sponge Thank you.If you are sad then i am equally so.I can't believe i'm questioning everything already i think i'm still trying to talk myself out of it all.

Lou-Also loving your work re; the divorce papers.I have everything crossed for you that he goes ahead.That will make a great christmas or new year pressie.

asbm - yes it is

elasta (((())))) how's your mom today?

mily - fireworks yaaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!!!!!!

sponge and beaut - i am also guilty of overthinking and overanalysing and he's still sticking around - just said that if i need to talk about anything to just ask him and he will answer me i think for all of us it comes from having being treated so badly in the past, that when we are treated properly, we're not used to it.

lou - yaaaaaaaay!!!!!!!

am p'd off now - am supposed to be giong out with dock green tomorrow evening and the babysitter has sent me a message thru facebook - even tho she has my number, saying that she can't make it!! this was two days ago as well. she's so unreliable, am having to wrack my brains trying to think who else i can ask at such short notice. bugger bugger bugger

Hey Aurora, re babysitter, what a pita

You are spot on with the observation abouthaving been treated badly in the past meaning it's hard to let someone in who wants to treat you well

RAF did and said a ton of tiny things last night that were considerate, thoughtful etc and I kept being floored and responding clumsily

Fireworks when he held my face in his lovely, warm hands, smiled and then kissed me

I had that thing where my knees literally went weak and I had to lean against him to stop myself falling over .

I have been floating around like a total airhead today

Oh dear god, they do keep coming:

"Looking at your lovely picture,I love everything that creates you,from your hair to your forehead looking deep into your eyes to your nose and from your lips to your chin.If I ever figure out the magic that makes you so special here, I'd probably say that it's a combination of all these things that i see I love everything that creates you.I am willing to start up a conversation with you.Here is my address: coleterry32 at yahoo dot com Feel free to ask me any question. "

You've got to hand it to the guy - he loves me and he's willing to start a conversation - suppose I'm lucky he's not willing to start a family!