Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 25)

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Kicking this off.

Hi BeautnotMag, 3rd date sounding promising and can see you are keeping your options open.

Monty, yes local news. Btw your train story, I was expecting something different aswell, thought you were on about a suspected terrorist, so had a smile how it turned out.

I would LOVE to come along on the 12th but not sure if I can get away as ex has gone away with new wifey for a month!!

Had interesting date with doc. He is lovely, not sure the spark is there, but definately worth a return match. He is very keen

Ooh Elasta, a doctor, I did notice before but wasn't sure when you were meeting him. Damn that spark thing!! Must give it another go though.

Sounds good, elasta...look forward to the next instalment.

I just had a webcam chat with Yank in Dubai, even though it was well after 1am there. He seems keen, but not back in UK until 9th. Another toyboy, but this time I will pull out his fingernails one by one until he admits his true intentions and what type of relationship he is looking for . Not getting caught out like that again.

Kings x/euston is fine by me

or holborn area?

hello all

elasta - doc might grow on you, see how 2nd date goes!

anywhere in london is doable for me although as coming in from croydon (work) the further south the better :)

today's (non) date with WM is off by the way. His meeting has been postponed. Am sulking :(

south is better for me too, but i still dont know if i can make it anyway :)

Ohh Sponge, what a shame...

Doc seems really keen, has sent me several flirty txts, not sure what to make of it all, am not used to getting quite so much attention

Will def arrange another date and see how it goes!

Beaut, more info please.

Last night was amazing.We put a movie on but didnt really watch it as we were chatting loads snuggled up on the sofa.We ended up in bed and it was great .

When we were cuddling afterwards he said that he really wants to be in a relationship with me .Its all happening really fast.But i think when its right you just know.I still trying not to get too carried away but its so difficult as i've never felt feelings like these before

Hi all by the way

Sponge thats a shame about WM.Why don't you send him a text and arrange a drink for another time.

Elasta I agree with sponge doc might grow on you.Have you arranged the second date yet?

oh sponge

waterloo, london bridge, victoria?

Beaut sounds brill fingers crossed xxx

SCL thank you.He has been texting me from work and has a long drive ahead of him.Feel a bit bad he must be tired as we ahem didn't exactly get much sleep

Beaut, sounds very promising. Love the way you said 'when you know you know' then told Elasta 'doc might grow on you'.

I want one of those when you know you know things to happen, I don't think you get that feeling until you've actually done the deed so advise to Elasta might still be valid.

Abouteve haha yes sometimes you know straight away but others are growers.I wasn't sure on a few of my exes at first.

To be honest i have only once before had the when you know you know things happen and he broke my heart.

beaut, good news, glad someone is having more luck than me

agree some do grow on you whilst others are more instant! I've only ever had a true thunderbolt once and likewise he was the one who broke my heart.

I did really fancy WM from the first moment I met him but remains to be seen whether anything will actually happen between us

We're both going to the same party at the end of the month, so I will see him then, but frankly at the moment am v tempted to just ask him out though am probably too much of a coward to do any more than think about it!

Sponge why don't you go for it.The last guy i dated i was the one that did the asking and he admitted he probably wouldn't have asked me out as he thought i wasn't that into him.

If not a few drinks at the party and then ask him.

I'm still nervous about this weekend with DG.I have spent a small fortune on underwear and two new outfits.

Sponge you might have to wait and see how it is when you are both at the do.

I just went online before and said hi to lg and he didn't even reply, WTF!

eve - I've done that with friends - they've just been logged in but busy and by time they've noticed message I've gone offline so don't read too much into it maybe ... or perhaps he's just an ignorant sod!

Aww sponge :(

Dr could well be a grower. XH was a grower.

Beaut :o Woohoo! Pleased and too.

Conversation with carrot about me driving in just my bra (due to him fiddling with the temp on Weds and me not knowing how to fix it) which he said would be a great journey. i got stroppy and told him its his own fault he doesn't get the fun journeys. I apologised (was a pmt snap) and he said he deserved it. Gah! Several questions now about what the plans are for my night in London. He. Is. Insane.

KDK, I'm sure he was being an ignorant sod, he won't get another chance to ignore me and am very annoyed. I give up.

Aww bollocks. just realised 12th i am meant to be at a party i am dreading. People who tend to make me feel like crap anyway with extra ammunition of broken marriage. joy.

Hmm. I may run to London anyway if i can't get a date for it.

flame - carrot is annoying me now! god knows how you must feel

am fed up at work. have 20 files to audit before 5pm and would far rather be texting WM (actually I'd far rather be out somewhere with him but texting is a more realistic and achievable option!).

Life is sometimes v unfair :)

lol Will let him know ;-)