ninah, you need new name howabout ninah_genius [wink}
or ninahmathswhizz
poorshow, am only on 2 sites, singlewithkids which is cheap but does my head in because all the men ever seem to do is send so-called ice-breakers (to multiple lists) to 'all the lovly laddies out ther' (sic)
meanwhile Guardian Soulmates seems more me but is a steep fee (which I signed up for after a glass or two
) and tbh am making only glacial progress there.....
I took a look at eHarmony but having ploughed through the personality profile thingy it rejected me because I am still married, albeit separated (I did read in the guardian t'other day that it is a US site which is run buy a conservative christian right-winger type who disapproves of separated people on the hunt, or people who have been married >3 times
)