Laura yes! Fucking yes! Not to be presumptuous (no idea what your original family ideal plan was, but in the basis it was "2 kids please"..) that's fantastic! Clearly all the additional risk and good luck rearing twins and not dying of exhaustion and so on and on and on, but positives: (hopefully) that's it for IVF ever again, no expectation to destroy your vagina delivering them, you'll be able to book in for a sunroof job with no bastard nct types advocating a blood and shit delivery bath! Very pleased for you. Relieved that you're still bitter as hell, and do come back to tell us all the instadiff cunt comments you hear from the fertiles. fantastic news overall!
Having minor freak outs with regard to cost/chances etc. Fell down an Internet hole where I found a mk1 golf convertible with only(!) 60k on the clock is sub £4K; that's 66% of an IVF round that might fail anyway and in the sunny weather who doesn't want to zoom around in an open top 20 year old golf eating a fab?!
Back to reality. Thanks potatoes - glad you're still around in lurkio.
pebblea I'm assuming the FET trial etc was a free go so subject to money situation may be a good idea? Otherwise what would be the fucking benefit? Asking a barren bastard like me to be purely altruistic has got to be beyond the fucking pale?!!
Yay for sunshine anyway ooh maybe it's a sign from something somewhere that IVF will work because I love sunshine and I remember pathetic fallacy from English a level
nurse oh god not a shit mil. Last thing anyone needs, parent drama. Just no. Mind you I've found barrenness has taught me to plumb new depths of bitterness and anger, so now you've acquired these new skills, what better way to use them than on your MIL!
stabs OK tonight, managed to angle the needle right so didn't hurt when plunging too much. Am such a weakling at it!
Dog shit and glitter to all, do with them as you please (especially if it involves glitter bombing / dog shit paper bag fire on the porch-ing of a deserving victim [cackle])