mitfordsisters - I'm just gobsmacked by your username - WHY on earth would you want to associate yourself with Britain's first lady of fascism??? Diana Mosely, nee Mitford, was an unabashed and ardent Nazi sympathiser; I don't think any amount of sisterhood would make me want to ever have anything to do with her, however virtual the connection.... weird.....
it just seems to me you're living in a world where men and women are natural enemies, and there are no other criteria for deciding who's good and who's bad. Not all men are bastards, contrary to that great 80's chant. Some of us like being defined not by our husbands but by the quality of the marriage that we are equal partners in. My DH is my biggest fan and I am his, my success is his success and vice versa - to me, marriage is about being on the same team, and I don't think this is something the Rodham-Clintons have ever really absorbed into their marriage, which I think is a shame for them personally: they seem to be, on a fundamental level, in competition with each other, and that hurts.
And for me that is why it was painful to watch her reaction to the misphrased question - it wasn't so much that she was wrong to react the way she did, it was that it gave away too much information about her personal life and feelings, which as a professional I am sure she will regret. It's the verbal equivalent of inadvertently flashing your underwear, and I think that's why she got jumped on. I'm not sure if it's inspired by misogyny or not - remember a couple of years back when Sarkozy seemed to be drunk at some summit, there was a lot of speculation about that, as I recall.