kitten really why are you trying to make this about poor old you and all the people being horrid to you?
This is about the abuse over decades of thousands of children carried out by priests and nuns. It is about the fact that the top brass in the catholic church, in rome and in ireland, colluded to cover up the abuse, and rather than removing the abusers simply moved them to other places with lots of lovely access to new children for them to abuse.
The church, top down, condoned and oversaw the abuse. they did not try to stop it. they denied it until the evidence became too great, they only apologised when that was the only course of action.
No-one is saying that the bog-standard members of catholic congregation are guilty of these crimes. The people who are guilty of these crimes are in teh establishment. The same establishment that is still blocking any attempts to prosecute these terrible crimes.
i just can't understand your attitude.
It sounds to me like you want everyone to shut up and say "oh whoops they made a bit of a mistake, still forgive and forget eh, let's have no more spoken about it".