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OMG imagine your husband disappearing, presumed dead and he turns up again 5 years later

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wannaBe · 03/12/2007 12:46

here

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FioFio · 06/12/2007 12:29

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allIWannaBeForChristmas · 06/12/2007 12:39

maybe he gave himself up to protect his interests.

maybe he became aware that the police were on to him. Someone else must have known after all - you don't just disappear into nowhere without a trace, so maybe the police had been asking questions and someone informed him that the police knew he was still alive.

So he comes back to this country, before he can be traced to Panama, goes into a police station and plays the amnesia card. And hopefully the police will let him go and in time, when the dust and media interest settle, he can disappear back to Panama where wifey, and bank account full of insurance money are waiting. Except he didn't bank on journalists tracking the photo of him and the wife together.

wheresthehamster · 06/12/2007 12:42

Yes, apparently the police have been investigating for the last 3 months so maybe he thought he would pre-empt them. I can't decide whether they decided that together or he did it without her knowing.

It's the dad I feel sorry for

kiskidee · 06/12/2007 12:48

panama nice

Piffle · 06/12/2007 14:07

the sons have issued a statement disowning both parents
from Sky news

bossybritches · 06/12/2007 14:45

Poor sons....a shock when they thought he'd died now they must feel like they've lost him all over again AND their mum too.

(and discovered they were a pair of shysters into the bargain)

It's poor old Grandad I feel most sorry for, hope the shock doesn't kill him.

saffy202 · 06/12/2007 15:52

The Evening Standard is now saying that he handed himself in as revenge after she left him.

allIWannaBeForChristmas · 06/12/2007 15:53

think I'd disown my parents too if they did that.

wheresthehamster · 06/12/2007 16:15

It's bizarre if the sons didn't know. How were the couple going to live undetected? Was she never going to have contact with them again?
Say they turned up in Panama for a surprise visit?

Being financial advisors they could have put them up to it

BahHunkerBug · 06/12/2007 16:16

Case was cracked by a single mum sleuth

PMSL when I read this - all those who are scathing about MN amateur deectives!

wheresthehamster · 06/12/2007 16:43

Great!! Who could play her? Fern Britton?
Judi Finnigan?

allIWannaBeForChristmas · 06/12/2007 16:55

OMG that only gives amunition to those who were googling on certain other threads recently .

FioFio · 06/12/2007 16:58

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bossybritches · 06/12/2007 18:02

PMSL!!

MN Sleuths.com!!

allIWannaBeForChristmas · 06/12/2007 21:36

so how much life insurance did he have? because they said the houses were sold for about £450000 or there abouts, and tbh that's an awful lot of scam for the sake of half a million quid.

TheIceQueen · 06/12/2007 21:42

oooo just read

"Mrs Darwin said: "I have no reason to think he would have left and stage-managed this."

from one of the initial reports from 2002 when he "vanished" - she said that 6 months after he "drowned"!!! Hmm - isn't that a rather odd thing to say when your DH is presumed dead???

re the life insurance - I bet it was a pretty big sum, and given his age he probably had at least one pension that paid a lump sum on his death, if not more (if my Dad died now he'd be worth a fortune just based on the number of pensions he's paid into over the years LOL).

divamummy2 · 06/12/2007 22:11

how shameful
sad for sons and his own father

bossybritches · 06/12/2007 22:18

Indeed diva.

Ice Queen my DH & I often joke he's worth more to me dead than alive. If he keels over off duty I have to stuff him into his uniform & claim he was about to go to work as I'd get more for death in service!

(sorry Nurse &police bad combination for sick SOH)

TheIceQueen · 07/12/2007 00:51

bossy - I know what you mean - DH is worth much more dead than alive - his insurance being a lot more than simply the mortgage value.

kiskidee · 07/12/2007 04:21

lol. I would not let him wear anything other than his uniform then, bossy. just in case.

bossybritches · 07/12/2007 08:41

Yeeeesssss except he'll get ideas that I'm getting ideas IYSWIM

Bless him just cos I used to think he was gorgeous & sexy in his uniform he thinks he still is! sigh

allIWannaBeForChristmas · 07/12/2007 12:30

so apparently the wife has left Panama. And the assumption is that she'll be arriving in the UK iminently, except no-one knows when or where from.

now am I the only one that thinks maybe she's just left panama and will be off to ... well ... somewhere that praps doesn't have an extridition treaty with Britain? .

bossybritches · 07/12/2007 12:47

Gawd knows with this family- apparently one of the sons has done a flit too?!

allIWannaBeForChristmas · 07/12/2007 12:49

hmmm think if I was one of the kids I would want to disappear too esp away from the media spotlight.

TheIceQueen · 07/12/2007 13:07

I was thinking that perhaps the wife wouldn't have left Panama for the UK too.......

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