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Mum kills two daughters because they ‘got in the way of her sex life’

183 replies

GimmeeCaffeine · 02/08/2019 15:33

Such depravity. Those poor little girls Sad

www.itv.com/news/2019-08-02/evil-mother-jailed-for-murdering-daughters-who-got-in-the-way-of-sex-life/

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CheekyFocker · 03/08/2019 06:12

I doubt we would be debating mental illness had this been a father killing his children. Women/mothers are just as capable of being evil and not mentally ill - just that society finds it harder to handle.

I caught it on the news last night - the CCTV images of the children in the flat are haunting. Poor little things.

TheBigBallOfOil · 03/08/2019 07:15

Supersimpkin autism is not a mental disorder. Nor is it correlated with Ben g violent or uncaring. Quite the opposite in my experience.

GimmeeCaffeine · 03/08/2019 10:54

@Supersimpkin Autism is NOT a mental disorder. I’m actually rather offended by that, since I myself am autistic.

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MyBeloved · 03/08/2019 11:16

Evil, evil bitch.
I hope she rots.

Supersimpkin · 03/08/2019 12:25

Don't blame me, take it up with the judge and the medical dictionaries he presumably uses: that's how he wrote his judgment.

I know exactly what you mean, though - similarly, I'm sick of people assuming that mental illness (autism isn't that, certainly) means bad character.

Surfskatefamily · 03/08/2019 12:34

I'm wondering where social services are? Surely they will have been involved after the first death and it sounds like father had reported her to them

Wishihad · 03/08/2019 12:39

I have mental health issues. I could not hurt a hair on my sons head.

He is autistic and never even shoved another child. So I very much doubt he would ever dream of committing a crime like this.

I get fed up with it. When women kill their kids, people are always looking for a way that at least some of the blame can be shuffled away from her. At least part of it was out if her control.

Yet when it's a man, the general public just think he is an evil bastard.

Anyone who kills a child is and evil bastard. I dont care about their sex.

NoCauseRebel · 03/08/2019 12:41

Bloody hell. So a woman kills her tWo children and people are giving her leeway because she could be mentally ill? And at the same time questioning why the father wasn’t in the picture?

Man kills children equals family annihilater and evil bastard just doing it to hurt his ex, and poor mother for having lost her two children. Woman kills her children equals must have mental illness and by the way why d didn’t the father stop it from happening?

Why can some people not understand that women are also capable of being evil bitches capable of killing their own children in cold blood.

I hope she rots, and wouldn’t shed too much of a tear if she chose to top herself. Although it would be better if she didn’t so she can spend the next x amount of years suffering and thinking about what she’s done.

Shortstuff99 · 03/08/2019 12:58

NoCauseRebel

Spot on, even though no sign of any mental illness found after extensive testing.

I doubt a mentally ill man doing the same thing would be afforded a scrap of understanding

Just blatant gender bias and nothing else, as usual.

TooMuch87 · 03/08/2019 14:32

The judge said during sentencing that "there is absolutely no evidence that you suffer from any medical condition or mental disorder that might have impacted on your actions. As I would expect, your experienced legal team explored this possibility, but no expert evidence has been placed before the court."

I also agree with what the judge says here: “Your daughters did not hold you back from what you wanted to do. There was no reason for their deaths other than that you decided to end their lives."

I don't think the children got in the way of anything. She frequently left them with her family or her landlady for long periods of time. She'd even leave them alone while she went off to have sex with men. There was no real reason for killing them, I think she just got some sick pleasure from it.

Betsy86 · 03/08/2019 14:40

Absolute scum of the earth i hope she never gets out that prison. 3 meals a day and a roof over her head is still way to accommodating.
Why on earth didn’t she hand those innocent children over to social services and give them a chance of living there lives.
So many people out there who would of loved and protected those girls raised them, educated and loved them like there very own.
Its heartbreaking.
RIP fly high girls xx

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 03/08/2019 14:59

@M0RVEN.
I wish that were true. However she'll probably be advised to put herself on protection for her own safety. Saying that maybe one of the officers will "accidentally"
leave a door open. If you get my meaning.

emmac98 · 03/08/2019 15:01

This makes me so angry and sad, people who do that to innocent little babies don't deserve to live. I hope she rots. Those children were let down. The fact she tried to kill them three times before and no one realised.

emmac98 · 03/08/2019 15:01

No. She wasn't mentally ill. She was just an evil cow.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 03/08/2019 15:03

Beautiful children as well. She didn't deserve them or better put they didn't deserve a disgusting mother like her.
The children got in her way and stopped her doing what you wanted. Well that's what parenting is all about when you make the decision to become a parent.

gonewiththepotter · 03/08/2019 15:09

I have 0 sympathy for a deadbeat father who never even met his 18 month old 🤔 you’re not ‘devestated’ or ‘broken’ any more so than anyone else reading that article! You didn’t know or have a relationship with your daughters so jog on touting for sympathy now- maybe if you’d been a present figure in their life this wouldn’t have happened huh?

I feel so incredibly sick to my stomach for these poor girls though. How horrific! There really is a list of couples out there who would have HAPPILY taken these little angels. All the mum had to do was take them to a local hospital/SS/police station and admit that she was a danger to them and would be leaving them here.

I wouldn’t judge any mother who did that.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 03/08/2019 15:09

I won't say much as it's from another thread.
However a women who is or rather is an risk of being evicted from her own has ss on her case.
Now her children aren't at risk from any abuSe
However where were they in this case.
I've said it on the other thread and I'll say it again, with no qualms It's small wonder a lot of people have a dislike toward s/workers.

KUGA · 03/08/2019 15:09

Bring back the Death Penalty.

Gregoire · 03/08/2019 15:20

Those poor girls - unimaginably horrific and awful. Their mother was sadistic, evil and unforgivable.

I'm also lacking in sympathy for their father. He never even met the younger. That means he either didn't want to, or he was so problematic himself he was denied any access rights. Either way he's got no right to play up his grief for public sympathy now, the cunt.

beanaseireann · 03/08/2019 15:23

Those two little darlings.
What kind of life did they have with her ?

Where was her mother and the father of the children ?
Her siblings?

They're not to blame but surely they could have intervened and removed the children from her.
Social Services and the police have to be questioned too.

She must be a psychopath.
Her "clients" must feel shame for associating with her.

OneToughMudderFudder · 03/08/2019 15:29

According to one report, this vile piece of filth's own mother has stated that she had told her that Scarlett would be next after Lexi's death, a few days before she killed her.

Wouldn't the alarms bells have been deafening if your daughter said that about your grandchildren? I'm not sure why her mother would want to do interviews really. She must have known about her daughter's lifestyle. Her sister certainly did.

From what I read the father never got to meet the younger child because she moved, and gave her the surname of a boyfriend. There is nothing to suggest he dumped them on her and didn't give a fuck about them. Poor bloke.

OpheliaTodd · 03/08/2019 15:34

Yep. I used to be vehemently anti death penalty but not in cases like this. The level of wrongness required for someone to do this to their own children..... she’ll never be any good to anyone and she’ll always be a danger. Lethal injection. No need to spend thousands on keeping her alive. Sorted.

feelingverylazytoday · 03/08/2019 15:41

Wow, well done Mumsnet. Only took 5 posts before someone was trying to deflect blame onto the father. And then people wonder why this forum has a bad reputation.

Wishihad · 03/08/2019 15:43

*I have 0 sympathy for a deadbeat father who never even met his 18 month old 🤔 you’re not ‘devestated’ or ‘broken’ any more so than anyone else reading that article! You didn’t know or have a relationship with your daughters so jog on touting for sympathy now- maybe if you’d been a present figure in their life this wouldn’t have happened huh?

Firstly, the only person responsible is the mother.

Secondly it appears she went well out her way to stop any contact. Even by giving the second daughter the name of the man she was seeing when she was born.

He also spoke to SS several times, hebwoild have only have done that if he was concerned.

He could have been a shit. Given she is a vile bitch. I would say it's more possible that she was the issue. Not him.

feelingverylazytoday · 03/08/2019 15:48

wishihad nope, on mumsnet it's always the man that's the issue, never the woman. I knew exactly the kind of posts that would be on this thread before I even opened it. So predictable.

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