And don't blame it on the Muslim community themselves; how many Muslim friends do you have? How much do you interact with people outside your own social group?
Well we had some lovely girls who were also Muslim in our class at school and they were not allowed to socialise with US. Then one, who always looked sad was shipped off to Pakistan to be married. We were a small class and very open and friendly with all, but I got the distinct impression the Muslim girls were not allowed to integrate with US.
I had another lovely friend who had left the faith because she wanted to be with a white non muslim, and her wider family were not happy about this, so she had to run...in the end and faced death threats.
There seems to be lots of rules in Islam which may make it hard for Muslim communities to integrate into liberal western life and some parents may wish to keep themselves to themselves ...
We have Muslim neighbours, the older ladies do not speak english but we smile all the time to each other, and have genial relations with the men, in terms of light social interaction. But that is the same level of all the neighbours on the street.