I agree, OYBBK. I keep deleting drafts so as not to get sidetracked. But then I think, some of this needs to be said.
So no shouting, but here's something important.
There is a big difference between recognising something, and "apologising forever" or "doing collective guilt" for it.
I don't want every man who sits on my sofa to apologise for women not having had the vote and equal pay, or for violence committed by other men on other women.
But failing to recognise those things is also not acceptable.
And this applies to pretty much everything that's been discussed on this thread. From recognising the actions of the attackers in Brussels today, to recognising Britain's actions past and present, to recognising the actions of other countries and powers repeating throughout world history.
Because failure to acknowledge prevents us from understanding what's going on. And then we really are in the shit.