Yes Pere these are good suggestions 
I just took a short walk and feel a little calmer. I want to engage with Luna constructively, if possible, not have a bun fight.
Luna here are my thoughts on your cries of "racist!":
I don't want to give away too much about me but I am mixed 'heritage' with dm from one ethnic group and df from a very different one. I was raised in a 'humanist' fashion and believe that all humans should be able to live in dignity.
Maybe the fact that I am ethnically 'mixed' and had access to different cultures whilst growing up makes me less interested in the topic of 'race' because I don't belong to any one race or ethnicity?
But I do belong to the female gender / sex and I don't want my our my dd's (whose father belongs to a third and distinct ethnicity) orifices penetrated without my or their explicit consent. If there is a danger of this happening as there is in Cologne and possibly elsewhere I want to be able to speak about it freely and find solutions. I do not wish to be censored by cries of "racist, racist" because i am not a racist i do not judge, stereotype or act badly towards people of any 'race' or ethnicity.
I know for a fact that people in the ME are extremely racist in the truest sense of the term. It is culturally quite acceptable to despise black people and white people, there is no political correctness there.
In a way, the attacks on the women in cologne can be described as racist attacks, couldn't they? They sought out German (white?) women to assault.