Tuna
You mention your husband getting warnings, & i know my bus company is a different one entirely, but how can one bus driver be understanding and not get told off by superiors but another the total opposite?
I've met some horrible bus drivers in my time (i get a free bus pass, so go most places by bus) & i mean absolute bastards.
One school lad was carrying an empty starbucks cup in his hand, the bus driver said 'Not a chance, get the fuck of my bus' (swearing and everything) He said 'Oh, its empty I'm just dunno put it in my bag' Bus driver, swore again told him to get off. Boy said, this is my last bus home (was around 6, & that particular bus stops at that time) driver swore again. In the end the boys friend took the cup off him & he was allowed to get on, made me so 