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March 2 victory - fledglings still flying in March 2018

247 replies

CotswoldStrife · 25/03/2018 23:36

Continuation of the March Flylady thread - all are welcome to join us for chat and general decluttering for our final week of March.

OP posts:
Afreshcuppateaplease · 29/03/2018 07:26

Good morning

I am a butterfly 🦋

foxessocks · 29/03/2018 07:35

zoosorry about your bad night. I sympathise!

I really must do this clutter test...

Ds slept in his own bed all night and only woke up once - had a big drink and changed his wet nappy an he went straight back to bed without a whimper. Thank goodness!dd just got up and ds still asleep. I don't feel particularly refreshed yet but I'm sure I will after a shower / getting up and about.

foxessocks · 29/03/2018 07:42

I'm a ladybug

I basically am tidy on the surface but hide my stuff in messy cupboards Blush well I have been trying to solve that buying lots of storage solutions recently!

Stilllivinginazoo · 29/03/2018 07:53

Just drag dd2 out of bed as boilers in girls room and I'm sure he won't want have enter whilst she's festering and snoring!!

Tadas
All fed and watered
Lil zoo lunch made(dd2 broke for Easter test.ds off anyways)
Littertray and bins

My throats scratching and nose blocked.better not be spreading their lurgy this way😒😒😒😒

Dd2 in foul mood with it plus lack sleep

To do
Something in my room
Laundry
Get dd1 Easter egg as she's pitstop visit tomorrow (at her dad's Sunday and working thru Easter((magnet kitchen sale is on so staff have to work either good Fri or Mon and she's stuck doing both as has no children/childcare issues))
If get time brasses at church ready for service tonight
Dinner tonight-lamb mince with garlic and rosemary,broccoli and carrots and jacket potatoes.jelky of I can be arsed....

Steamcloud · 29/03/2018 07:54

Sorry to hear sleep was scarce last night Zoo; the clocks going forward have thrown us off kilter; we're going to bed later than normal because it "feels" earlier ifyswim.

Sounds as though you really need and deserve that two-week break Bower!

Great that your ds slept Foxes !

Afreshcuppateaplease · 29/03/2018 07:57

Sorry to see so many dc up in the night!

Everyone slept til 6 at least here

Ta da

Poonami changed
Dc3&4 up and fed
Dryer on

Stilllivinginazoo · 29/03/2018 08:14

Wash in drier,more on
Lil zoo hugged and deposited in dad's car(his boss ask him to cover a huge shift-wed lunchtime to Fri 8am.he agree on proviso he could still do school run today as I have be here for gasman)feels weird not doing school run...

Stilllivinginazoo · 29/03/2018 08:15
strawberry1122 · 29/03/2018 08:21

Morning all. Not been on here last two days as I've been work last two days. Just about to do the final school run before half term then I'll come back and catch up with the chatter on here then hit more chores.

Ta da

Showered
Fed kids
Dressed kids

Stilllivinginazoo · 29/03/2018 08:50

My motivation appears to have run off.if anyone sees it slap it and send it back this way please!!Grin

Afreshcuppateaplease · 29/03/2018 08:55

Maybe it eloped with mine!

HillsBesideTheSea · 29/03/2018 09:04

SC i have thoughts on your question and the answer to science book recommendations. but am late for work.

HillsBesideTheSea · 29/03/2018 09:05

Arghhhhh. Will get back to you after the over the hills run tonight.

Steamcloud · 29/03/2018 09:58

Hills no worries and absolutely NO rush (on either front) at all. Safe travelling over them there beauties!

foxessocks · 29/03/2018 10:33

I have brain fog today.

Cagliostro · 29/03/2018 10:43

Very little sleep here. I only woke up properly at 9.30, but Cagletini was fussing on the boob for several hours overnight. No idea what’s going on there. 😴 Kind of dreading staying at mum’s for 3 nights now, if it’s going to be that sort of night.

Caglets are at least getting on with their work though, while I am hiding upstairs. Want to get their poster finished today. Easter holidays will be for online learning and TIDYING DAMMIT

Just heard an almighty crash as DD decided to move her bookcase and then wondered why everything fell off it. 🤦‍♀️

Today’s plan. Laundry. Might just prioritise Caglets’ Stuff and leave DH with ours. But need to pack for mum’s. Going to take some stuff with us, and then DH will bring another suitcase on Saturday and go home with our washing/used stuff, so I have less to manage on the journey with baby (using sling again). Boots to collect vitamin D. Wilko to get storage. Library to print their typed work for the poster. Ice cream parlour for meeting with friends. That’s the best bit.

Re autism test. I haven’t watched the programme yet (with this sort of thing I tend to wait and see what others think first) but will have a look. I used to be a big fan of Simon BC, not so much now as I have read a fair bit about his ideas (theory of mind) being quite outdated and in particular too skewed towards ‘boy type’ autism IYSWIM. I may be repeating the show here, in fact I hope they did mention how differently it presents in females, for example people associate autism with lack of empathy but actually it can sometimes be the opposite.

In terms of the test, wow were you expecting a high score for you or DD? I tend to tell people, it’s only a problem if it’s a problem. If there are things you are unhappy with then pursue it, but if you aren’t bothered there’s no need. My best friend realised shortly after I was diagnosed that she is too, but she is happy as she is and has no intention of getting assessed. Whereas I was struggling with things and needed that process and to come to terms with it. For children and teens I think it’s more worth considering it regardless, as I know I would have benefited from earlier diagnosis (not that I resent it not being picked up on, I just presented as a clever geeky kid, and people didn’t really know much about ASD in girls then so I don’t blame people for not realising really).

Ugh, I ache like hell this morning. I really hope the supplements help. 😣

Afreshcuppateaplease · 29/03/2018 11:00

Ta da

Wash on
Dryer on
Dc all up fed dressed
Tea pots
Breakfast pots
Stairs hoovered
Hall swept
Hall mopped
Coats decluttered
Hall decluttered
Cot stripped

foxessocks · 29/03/2018 11:31

Ta da
Daily routine

To do
15 minutes living room
Living room edges
Make dd an optician appointment
Book activity for next week for DC

As I haven't left the house for some time I now have a million things to do and all before Sunday not sure how it's going to work!

TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 29/03/2018 12:57

Hello all,

Ta da:-
School parents assembly. Sooooooo sweet.
Chose new glasses!!!!! Well, nearly as I want to sleep on it and go back next week but I think finally I have chosen. Had been putting it off for ages as paralysed by choice and feel the need to get it right as too expensive to change my mind so dragged DH in with me this morning as he was off for the assembly. One pair are fine for everyday (not great but I hate wearing glasses anyway) and unexpectedly found a second pair that are great for when I want a bit of a change. Too bright for me for everyday wear for me but I love them. So that is a big thing done.

Am in DD1’s room still. Have a load of clothes she needs to try on and probably need another 15 mins tidying then will hoover. Then need to decide what to do with the 3 big BRCs removed from her room Confused. Most of the stuff is not really crap but where to put it?????!

To do:-
As much as feasible in the room
Figure out online food shop or make list to go to supermarket tomorrow

Cagliostro · 29/03/2018 17:19

Outing done. Got rained on. Had yummy dessert and really good chat with two friends about their own possible ASD. Friend also printed the stuff for me so didn’t need the library. Got storage stuff and vitamins, and put a wash on when I got in. Didn’t even sort it first just need to power through it! Got a jacket spud in the oven now.

Wilko finally had the right size boxes so more stuff can be stored. It seems daft to be moving stuff from ikea buckets (trofast) but, we will not be taking the buckets with us as they need replacing, and this way the certain toys can be properly sealed and safe and out of bounds. I’m also thinking that as all the furniture will cost a lot when we move we might just keep everything in these boxes for a bit while we prioritise buying other furniture. So the boxes may as well be decent (cheap, but sturdy plastic) and the right size for each item. For example we got a huge flat box for the marble run as the long wooden pieces didn’t fit properly in the trofast anyway. I’m thinking for now I might use the emptied trofast buckets as BRCs as at least we can put them out the way while we sort other stuff?!

Stilllivinginazoo · 29/03/2018 18:05

If your motivation eloped with mine afresh are we now related?!Grin

Busy day(as ever)at zoo house
Gas man eventually appeared and serviced boiler(sorted few recipes whilst waiting)
Out D's and dd2 to get dd1 and her fiancée Easter eggs
Late lunch
Pick up lil zoo and after drop older two pop Waitrose as essential range hot X buns dairy free
Came back and scarf two with butter with lil zoo😋😋😋😋

Dinner tonight-
Meatballs from freezer,couscous and carrots
Pasta lots green veggies and cream cheese for sore throat dd2 after she's been Maundy service at church.starts 730 she's taking D's.lil zoo already on.ladt legs of tiredness so be asleep by then I feel

Hoping sore throats etc are better next couple days dd2 is like bear sore head when under par and is VERY hard work...

Afreshcuppateaplease · 29/03/2018 18:10

I think we would be zoo!

I have spent too long today observing the behaviour of people who live near me and my arse hurts from my judgy pants Blush

Bowerbird5 · 29/03/2018 18:30

Sounds good to me Cags

Relieved to be on holiday now. Been very under par this term so hope two weeks off will give me a boost and I will go back feeling less tired.

I hope to also organise school stuff and declutter my paperwork and also stuff at home. I bought some new boxes that fitted and matched for under my bed. I had put it off because of expense which in hindsight was daft. I could afford them but thought I should make do. It has made such a difference especially shoes. I have most in one box. Single shoe boxes for more expensive or new shoes for going out. The rest in one large box. Waste less time looking for stuff. Keep alternative season clothes in another.We have put stuff in the loft only to find mice eaten though a suitcase so I am loathed to put clothes up there although we have poison up there.
I also bought RUBoxes one or two at a time to keep crafts in as they stack nicely. I just need to organise the rest of the stuff in there. So I will have to have a plan. I have found my journal so a plan will ensue starting tomorrow. I might enlist DH too. Under supervision. He could clear the house in a day. Ruthless no sentimentality. Not interested in crafts but he does have a lot of books but so do I. I keep very few novels but have lots of non fiction books.
Right tights needed as weather has turned colder then off to Mass. I have had a 10 minute nap so shouldn't fall asleep. It is usually a long service for those not in the know. I hope those babies sleep tonight and that the stickies stop being sick. We had masses in the entrance yesterday. Don't know who but a lot of sick from a small child I would say. Cleaners weren't too happy as it was cord carpet. If you haven't experienced scrubbing a corded school carpet you won't know. Believe me not an easy job!

Bowerbird5 · 29/03/2018 18:35

Greek pork chops for us later. Hoping DH will have peeled potatoes and carrots. Or Gammon from Tescos ...I forgot I was organised and bought this on Monday. There is green mixed veg too. Oh well he has a choice which to cook, he doesn't do church! I had afternoon snack tea to keep me going...excuse to eat sweet, fattening biscuit and cake.

foxessocks · 29/03/2018 18:36

afreshGrin sounds quite entertaining!

Ta da
15minutes living room - dusted corners, radiators, stairs etc
Booked optician
Booked activity
Cooked dinner - pork belly chorizo mixed bean casserole with kale and potatoes
Ice cream for pud for the kids and me and dh going to scoff rest of strudel later
Dishwasher on again
Rubbish all out
All tidied after dinner

To do
Get kids to go to BED. My goodness they have been challenging today!

Does anybody else have a child who takes hours to eat their dinner because they can't stop talking for long enough?!?

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