Evening everyone. No one went on the naughty step. Yay! Ds's behaviour was dreadful at times. He was fine to begin with but when the competitive games began he couldn't handle it.
Dh ended up playing a platform game with him on the wii to keep him settled. I am not really sure how strict I should be with him in these circumstances. I told him off, just as I would have told off dd at that age, but I have no idea if, for him, that was the right thing to do or not. 
At least, since it was just family, everyone knows we are a bit at sea and feeling our way a bit through this.
I hope everyone else has had a lovely day so far.
Dh and ds are still gaming and dd is watching Mr Poppers Penguins here beside me. We are all full up and a bit woozy with it all. 
I will reshine my sink, but not for a while...